The interaction between parents and children has a subtle effect since the child was young, which basically determines the child’s behavior and personality afterwards. Today, the editor of Xiaoou Parenting talks about will tell you how to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship.
Parent-child relationship has a wide impact on the establishment of children's physical and mental health, values and outlook on life, and cannot be ignored. It has a great impact on the child's language development. In terms of language development, mothers will have a greater impact on the child's language development than fathers. The second is the impact on the child's personality formation. For example, a discordant family environment will cause the child to stutter and have a bad temper, and it is easy to do some bad things in his youth.
Secondly, it will also affect social interpersonal relationships, harmonious family relationships and good parent-child relationships, which can make children feel cared for and need. At this time, the child will also have better interpersonal relationships, but if the child is always in a discordant parent-child relationship, he will not trust others and will not be able to communicate well with his friends.
Parent-child relationship is a very difficult lesson, but it is very meaningful. Nowadays, many parents have a headache about how to establish a parent-child relationship. A parent-child relationship that is too close seems to spoil children, but if you are unfamiliar with parent-child relationship, you are worried that it will affect the children's mental health. In fact, parents can express their love for their children from details, such as understanding their children's psychological needs and understanding their eyes.
If you have a relatively good parent-child relationship, there will be no many communication barriers between parents and children. In parent-child relationships, a common problem is that parents cannot adapt well to certain moments of their children's growth and development. For example, parents can take good care of their babies, but they have no choice but to naughty children. Also, parents can guide their children in their youth, but they have no choice but to rebel children in their adolescence.
If you want to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship, parents must first correctly position their role and create an easy-to-access and better image. For example, you can be friends with your children and communicate more, instead of always putting yourself in a high position, making it difficult for your children to communicate.
Secondly, parents should pay more attention to their children's psychological changes. If the child has many things that he cannot understand or has some knots in his heart, parents should guide the child to say it out and enlighten his children's psychological problems. Of course, this does not mean that we must meet any child’s requirements. We must solemnly reject some unreasonable requirements of children.
Parents also need to respect children, believe that they can do a good job, give them confidence, and make them feel their importance. Such a parent-child relationship can make children feel responsible. Nowadays, parents adopt scientific educational concepts to give their children space to support their children’s independence and positive setbacks, solve problems, and let their children develop good habits such as respecting teachers and caring for friends from an early age.
A gentle and happy family environment will allow children to develop an optimistic attitude towards life, face various problems in life correctly, and solve many interpersonal problems by themselves.
Before the child is six years old, many parents do not know how to educate the child best. Many parents, regardless of whether the child is interested or talented, arrange their children to learn some artistic expertise or skills without authorization, such as painting, dancing, learning Go, etc. In fact, these are all blind learning and will basically not have a positive impact on the child's future, but may instead destroy the parent-child relationship.
Whether the parent-child relationship is friendly and harmonious has affected the direction of children's education to a certain extent. If the parent-child relationship is bad, parents' education of their children will not work, and the children do not want to listen to their parents' education. However, if the parent-child relationship is good, the child will cooperate with his parents, listen to his parents' teachings, and learn a lot without realizing it.
