Every child must be sent to kindergarten by their parents from the age of 3 or 4. It is called to study, but in fact it is just to adapt to school and to lay the foundation for elementary school. They are afraid that the child will not be able to sit on the bench if he goes directly to elementary school.
Currently, there are many types of kindergartens on the market, such as convenience kindergartens, international kindergartens, bilingual kindergartens, public kindergartens , etc. There are big differences between different types of kindergartens, and it depends on how parents choose.
Of course, different kindergartens have different knowledge that they can teach children. At the same time, the charging standards of each kindergarten have become a topic of public concern, because is not within the control range of relevant national regulations and , and many charging standards are not recognized by parents.
However, what parents don’t know is that there are actually many hidden tricks in kindergartens and . Parents can be tricked if they are not careful. There are also some shrewd parents who can do the opposite and prevent kindergartens from prying.
Kindergarten side "explores family background", parents do the opposite to avoid being tricked
When it comes to kindergarten, many parents think that it does not exist because of the connection between kindergarten and primary school. Parents do not expect their children to learn much knowledge in kindergarten. They just hope that they can adapt to school and lay a good foundation for primary school learning.
Little do they know that during the three years or so that their children are in kindergarten, parents have to endure the kindergarten routine. If they don't pay attention to their "family background", they will be exposed. This has nothing to do with the students, but it has caused a lot of impact on the parents.
A netizen mentioned on the Internet about the routines of children's kindergarten, which inadvertently aroused the resonance of many parents. There are also some parents who are involved in it but don't know it. It wasn't until they saw the discussions among netizens that they knew the underlying thoughts of the kindergarten. Netizen
said: The kindergarten where the child is located allows to draw the car and the drawing room . When the child was in the kindergarten, he told them to draw according to their own family. After handing it in the next day, the kindergarten teacher found out that a student in the child's class lived in a villa.
also went to inquire with the student about the location of the villa, the work of his parents, etc. From then on, this child became the teacher's favorite, and many teachers from other classes would deliberately come up to say hello when the student's parents went to pick her up from school.
does not have the posture that a teacher should have at all. instead lowers his posture very low. It is obvious that he is going forward to please the parent , so that the parent is also very confused and has no idea why it has become like this!
Kindergarten inquires about students' family background, not only to understand, but also to get "help" from parents
In fact, even if many parents know that kindergarten is inquiring about students' family background, they do not take it to heart, because parents do not think that kindergarten can do much to affect students, but they do not know that kindergarten's approach may have a huge impact.
The reason why kindergartens try every means to find out about students' backgrounds is not only to understand the students, but also to get "help" from parents. The larger the scale and the higher the qualifications of the kindergarten, the more they value capable parents.
The more help they need from parents. To give a simple example, kindergartens hold many large and small activities every year. These activities require a lot of financial and material resources. Do you think these are all kindergartens pay for themselves?
At this time, the kindergarten can play a role in exploring the family background. Parents can be said to be rich and contribute money. In many cases, after an event is held, the kindergarten not only does not spend any money, but also earns a lot of advertising fees .
This is because they get more from the parents of the students, which is also the main reason for doing professional due diligence on the parents. For example, for the celebration props required when holding events, parents who are engaged in wedding work need to help contact the venue layout, etc.
Parents who are engaged in the dessert industry can arrange the small desserts, table settings, etc. required for the event; the parents who are planning are responsible for the details of the event. After the entire event, it is the teachers and staff of the kindergarten, as long as they participate on time.
This phenomenon is obviously not the first time it has happened in kindergartens. On the contrary, many parents have become accustomed to this wave of operations in kindergartens. However, the children's time in kindergartens is very short, and if they can get by, they will not be too resentful, which invisibly allows this situation to develop wantonly.
[The author has something to say]
Parents, don’t forget that sending your children to kindergarten requires paying tuition fees, and kindergarten tuition fees are not cheap from a certain perspective. Many international kindergartens and bilingual kindergartens even charge very high fees.
There are even some kindergartens that charge tens of thousands a year. Not every parent can afford a kindergarten of this level, and during this period, parents also need to bear a lot of unnecessary expenses, which are imposed by the kindergarten.
hopes that parents can treat this phenomenon rationally. In many cases, parents' indulgence does not have a good impact on their children. Instead, it creates a profit-seeking growth environment for their children and affects them to establish correct views.
Today’s topic: Have you been asked about your “family background” by the kindergarten? Do you think this behavior is normal?
