Parent feedback
The child has no problem in learning, but the child's temper is very bad. If he is dissatisfied with anything, he likes to yell or hit others to vent his anger. Every time I communicate with my children, it has no effect. So what should you do if your child has a bad temper? How to guide?
Jiuzhou Jinbang Family Education Teacher Li:
Children lose their temper and even engage in extreme behavior. This is the child expressing dissatisfaction. Parents should try their best to persuade and appease the impatient mood. Patiently ask about the reason for the child's tantrum and solve the problem from the root.
As a parent, you should be optimistic and regard every time your child loses his temper as an excellent educational opportunity for you to find out the reason. Then prescribe the right medicine.
Children have bad tempers and bad personalities, how can parents guide them!
1. Parents should calm down
When children lose their temper, parents must calm down and never beat or scold their children. Calm down and ask your child why he is behaving like this. Children's way of thinking is still very different from adults. Beating and scolding a child without asking for the reason will not only hurt the child's self-esteem, but may even accumulate resentment in the child.
2. Communicate more with your children
Parents should communicate with their children frequently, so that when their children lose their temper, they can promptly understand their children's demands and know the reasons for their children's tantrums. In this way, parents can guide their children according to the reasons for their tantrums and reduce their anger.
3. Vent your emotions correctly
When children are angry and angry, they are venting their bad emotions. Children don’t know how to vent their emotions, let alone the consequences of doing so. Therefore, parents must teach their children to express and express their emotions correctly.
When children have bad emotions, parents should not criticize, accuse, or prevent them from venting. Instead, guide the child to vent reasonably. When children learn to express their emotions correctly, their tantrums will gradually decrease.
4. Avoid spoiling
Children who make unreasonable suggestions will lose their temper and be irritable if they are not satisfied, threatening their parents to satisfy themselves. If this happens for a long time, the children will get used to it. Express your demands by losing your temper. Therefore, parents should avoid pampering, clarify their attitudes, and cannot make concessions just because of crying.
5. Stabilize the child's emotions
The child loses his temper and is very emotionally unstable and irrational. At this time, parents should give their children some time to calm down and stabilize their emotions, and then communicate with and guide their children.
6. Let the children realize their mistakes
After the children calm down their anger, clearly tell the children that their behavior is wrong and let them know the consequences of their mistakes. Establish the concept of right and wrong. If the child behaves in an extreme manner, some methods can be used to punish him.
The above is shared by Teacher Li from Jiuzhou Jinbang Family Education: I hope it will be helpful to all parents! If you have children who are tired of studying, rebellious, addicted to games, puppy love, test anxiety, low self-esteem and other family education problems. Welcome to leave a message for discussion or send us a private message!
