"Teacher, my child has such a bad temper!"
"Teacher, I can't communicate with this child. Other people's children are very obedient, but he is not obedient at all. I say one thing, and he retorts two... "
" Teacher, he doesn't listen to anything we say. He only listens to the teacher. You have to talk to him well... "
"I just did too much for him, and he didn't even wash a pair of socks and underwear..."
remembered that during a home visit before, a mother said this about her son.
Every word seems to be telling that the child is not good and it is not my problem. If he had listened to me, he would not be like this.
To be honest, I really didn’t know how to answer her words at that time.
It's not enough for you to nag at home. You can also go out in front of others, in front of your child, completely ignoring his self-esteem and humiliating him.
These parents don’t want to communicate well with their children. They just want to say to others: I have tried my best. It’s not that I don’t care about the child, or that I haven’t tried hard, but this child just doesn’t learn well.
He is not bad because he is like me, but because he does not listen to me! How could a good parent like me give birth to a child like this?
Fortunately, the children still listen to you, teacher. I don’t know whether your skills are good, or whether your presence makes the children look down on us parents, I don’t know!
But let me give you a high hat as a teacher first. After you take care of it, the child will get better. Isn’t that your responsibility as a teacher? After you take care of it, the child has not gotten better. You see, it is useless for the teacher to take care of this child. This means that the problem is not my level, but the child's problem.
Or, my skills are not good, but you teachers are from prestigious universities and graduate students, and you don’t manage my children well, so how can you become teachers?
After shirking the responsibility, the parents were moved by their own efforts. Alas, I was really worried about my child!
