Some people say that the epidemic is a mirror that reflects evil spirits. It reveals not only the dark sides that people are good at hiding, but also the most real close relationships between each other. A hot search post that
came across a few days ago happened to confirm this statement. The poster of
is a mother. In the post, she said that her husband had a quarrel with her over a bottle of antipyretic medicine to the point of divorce, and she was just dissatisfied with him for taking the antipyretic medicine for her child. As a mother, the mother did not know what she had done wrong.
What happened is not complicated.
Like many people, my mother’s husband was also infected with the virus . After confirming that was positive for , the symptoms began to worsen gradually. Finally, my father’s fever reached 39.5 degrees. At this time, the family only prepared antipyretics for the child, and there were no extra adult medications.
Due to the tight supply of medicines, antipyretics were not available in large pharmacies outside. At first, Baoba planned to resist, and kept using physical cooling methods. However, without the intervention of antipyretics, the body temperature was always in a high fever state, and Baoba felt particularly uncomfortable with the fever.
In desperation, Bao's father drank the child's backup Motrin. Although the children's antipyretic medicine solved the urgent need, what Bao's father did not expect was that his wife was very angry after learning about this incident. In her opinion, no matter how uncomfortable adults are, they should not touch the child's backup medicine, otherwise the child will be in great trouble once infected.
Things are not over yet.
In the eyes of the husband, the wife has become a partner who does not care about his life or death. In the eyes of the wife, the husband's behavior of drinking the spare medicine shows that he does not take the life of the child seriously.
Then, the wife angrily told the child about the father taking the backup medicine. As expected, the child was also full of resentment towards the father, and the family conflict was intensified.
From a female perspective, when they see a man quarreling with his wife to the point of divorce because of a bottle of antipyretic medicine, I believe many people will think that the man's behavior is very low-key. But after understanding what happened, most people will change the focus and think that the wife's behavior is the real "cold-blooded" in the relationship between husband and wife.
A netizen replied to Bao's mother: Let's not talk about anything else. Just by telling your children about this matter and inciting their emotions against their father, you have done a very good job. Secondly, don’t you care if your husband gets erect? If you don't care about your husband's condition and value your children above all else, do you and your wife still have feelings for each other?
In the topic of family relationships, there is a very classic "sorting problem". When we ask a married woman with children: How do you sort yourself, your husband and your children in your heart?
It’s no surprise that most women put “children” first.
There are also many traditional women who believe that their husbands should come first, their children second, and themselves last. However, the order with the most likes is: themselves, husbands, and children.
Although every family has its own rules for getting along, and we have no right to judge right or wrong, for most women, if they want to maintain family harmony, they must have a balanced attitude towards family members. This is why it is generally believed that the relationship between husband and wife should be better than the relationship between parents and children.
When women become mothers, maternal love will make us love our children even more. There is nothing wrong with mothers loving their children, but in a family, in addition to mothers, we also have another identity called wives. Love between husband and wife can not only manage love well, but also create a good growth environment for children.
On the contrary, if after giving birth to children, the wife will devote all her heart to the children and not care about the other half, then the family relationship will fall into an imbalance. Over time, the husband's grievances, anger and dissatisfaction will be expressed through any thing.
In the incident of "Dad had a high fever and ate his child's fever-reducing medicine", the wife asked netizens at the end of the post: What did I do wrong?
Naturally, it seems unbelievable that a bottle of antipyretic medicine would lead to a divorce. But behind the husband’s anger lies a long-term unbalanced family relationship. It was not the bottle of Merrill Lynch that made the husband so sad that he wanted to separate. It was the wife’s reaction during the critical period that did not let him feel any warmth.
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