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things are like this.
I was taking an online class on sex education . I happened to talk about the correct use of condoms. People used their fingers to demonstrate instead of jj. My brother was playing next to me. I didn't avoid him, so I felt that he couldn't understand either, and then he seemed very interested.
After listening to the class, I ran to get his tie, , then put my finger in, poked a little under my belly, and said "poke the cock, poke the cock", I was shocked and asked him what he meant. He said that the cock is a little cock, I carefully pulled him aside and told him that this was something that I could only do after I grew up and thought about it with the person I liked.
But he didn't listen to me, he lay down under my feet and touched my feet with his nose! (It's really annoying!)
I know I should do some sex education with him, take a look at related picture books, and tell him that this is a very serious matter, , but he doesn't listen to me, and what if he uses this kind of despicable action to a little girl in the same grade?
Based on my barely good family environment, I told my mom about this.
However, the reply I got was:
I was a little overwhelmed before, and I left halfway through the meal. My mother asked me to have a meal. She said again that my online class was too loud, so I threw my chopsticks,
She reacted very loudly, and I burst into tears, and I screamed a few times and ran into my room.
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At the same time, I told my best friend about this.
I still considered that my mother was menopause and hormones were unstable and she was still taking medicine, so she did not argue with her.
At that time, due to emotional reasons, my sister and I were in a tweet. The sister helped me straighten my emotions and roughly analyzed:
. My mother may not know the specific content of my online class, and thinks that the content of a certain online class misled my brother
. I suddenly posted this incident, she might have received a big impact
. I am studying preschool education, and I can give my mother some good science to popularize the importance of children's sex education
At this time, my emotions were almost calmed down. My mother came to knock on the door. She didn't understand why I was emotionally broken like this. She wanted to come and have a serious conversation with me. OK, isn't this right?
I was typing just now to sort out the reasons for being angry and the importance of my brother's sex education.
My mother and I "chat" all the time online, (my mother doesn't know), thank her, Because of her voice and companionship, I won't be emotionally broken
So I sent my mom half of the text.
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During the quarrel, I told me something I had been hiding for a long time:
I was molested by a male deskmate in the first grade of elementary school. He put his hand into his pants and touched my butt. Because I didn't understand anything or personality, I dared not tell my parents and teachers.
When my mother heard this, her first reaction was: "Boys are like that, they are sarcastic, ignorant than girls..."
Her first reaction was not because I was wronged. She actually comforted me with the reason that boys were like that.
Then she asked again: " You are like this because of such a small thing today? "
When I heard her reaction, I completely calmed down and felt so sad.
My mother talked a lot of things behind her. I told her what if my brother did that, what should he do? She warned me to believe in my brother's character.
She told me that my online class was too loud, My dad was there at home, and some courses still need to be avoided (I don’t understand why my dad was avoiding my sex education online class)
She said that my brother is still very young (seven years old), he is a fool, he doesn’t know anything, and asked me to take more burdens in daily life, and said that I never hit me when I was a child, and it was all about this kind of education.
After a while, she said You should have kicked the boy over and punched him. He also complained that I didn’t tell my parents and teachers at that time, and complained about my personality that I didn’t tell them anything since I was a child. I asked if there were any boys bullying me in junior high school and high school, and whether my roommate bullied me?
She asked me if my period is coming soon and my emotions are so sensitive.
She brought the topic to a very far place, but the problem was not solved, including her later trying to make me laugh, she didn't pay attention to why I was angry and why I was emotionally broken. She only knew that after I calmed down, she made me laugh, and this matter could be turned on.
I was full of words to my mother. Her baby son and the boy who molested me was so heartbroken. Why did you find a reason for the boy as soon as possible? Why can they get so much favoritism?
God Comment Xiao Ming:
Your mother has become Nan Bao's mother, extremely misogynistic, your mother is your brother's mother, not your mother. So I will defend XRS's WSN, and will not consider that my daughter is hurt, and that infringing on your Nanbao is more important than you.
God Comment Xiaohong:
It's so difficult... Since the birth of the younger brother, she has not just your mother, but she will have more identities later, the mother of the son, the mother-in-law of the daughter-in-law, the grandmother of the grandson, and the balance has been tilted... This is just the beginning in the social context.
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The wife and mother are not mothers, she is already a qualified male mother. Recognize the reality and protect yourself, don’t let your heart hurt. I have a younger brother who is ten years younger than me. I also felt that it was my burden at that time. I really thought of him. I was afraid of how I would live in the future (for example, being sucked by my parents)
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Source: Universal Academic Master
