"Let the child be obedient" and "Listen to the child"
Hello everyone, the theme I am sharing with you is "Let the child be obedient" and "Listen to the child"". As the child grows up, he gradually has his own thoughts, and I hope to do many things according to my own ideas. But in the eyes of parents, some ideas are childish and immature, and children should do what they say. However, I can't afford to love my children so much. The more obedient a child is from a young age, the more he suppresses himself. The more serious it will come by the day of the outbreak.
Because obedient children have no self, and from the perspective of the essence of life, everyone's life is independent and they all desire to control their own life. Therefore, it is better to listen to your child's words than to make him obedient. Only when adults work hard to understand the children's voices can they teach children how to be obedient.
The obedience here means being able to understand what we say. Especially adolescent children need to be understood and respected. Parents lose their temper, show authority, joke and control will only cause rebellious psychology. Listening carefully and responding positively can achieve twice the result with half the effort. If you want your child to be both enthusiastic and improve, this is the correct way to respond.
1. Positive affirmation. See the positive side of your child. Be careful to understand what your child is thinking and let him tell you his ideas. After fully understanding, give affirmation from the bottom of your heart. Is this what you thought of? Your view on this matter is very unique. Can you tell me in detail with your dad? At this time, the child will definitely give you a good talk because of your heart's praise.
Second, make suggestions. Praise alone is incomplete. He may lead people astray and mistakenly think that he is the most perfect. So suggestions and opinions are also needed. You can make suggestions based on your own ideas. For example, I think this place would be better if it could be modified? It triggers children to think about how to adjust it next time to make this painting look better?
gives children's thoughts a space for free to jump. And help them grow, and the children will bring you great surprises.
