Constantly telling children to be obedient and obedient will only make children lose their ability to think independently. If a classmate robs your child's pen, the child must be robbed back. If it is not robbed back, others will bully your child one after another. People are bullying the weak and afraid of the strong. If there is the first time, there will be the second and third time, and then there will be countless times. When he bullies too much, he will not be happy when he resists. He will firmly knock you down until the robbery comes back. He will ask the child to bully him. Cultivate the child's ability to bear it. Let the child know that in the future, those who have good grades should work for him, arrange work for them, and be willing to bear it will have someone to mess with you.
Let the child know jungle rules . How will society treat him in the future? How should you treat him at home? When the child is young, you help him bypass all setbacks. Then when he grows up, he will bypass all successes. You can't be used to him for a lifetime. Don't let him develop the habit of being used to be abusive. By putting pressure and setbacks at home, let him learn to examine the situation, be free to advance and retreat, fight if he can't beat him, talk if he can't beat him, run if he can't reach a fight, and endure if he can't run. In short, you must learn to minimize the harm to himself, let him learn how to deal with setbacks and bear pressure.
We must let children understand from an early age that all interests will not fall from the sky, and they are all obtained through competition. Our success is based on our own strength and the failure of our opponents. Let children learn more Go and Chess Military Chess activities, let them have the concept of confronting each other since childhood, and win the opponents from childhood,
Cultivate children's power thinking, let children read more books from Han Wudi before , Han Feizi Guiguzi Zuo Zhuan Sun Tzu Art of War , children learn money-making thinking from an early age, and thoughts that as long as they cannot make money are all false thoughts, pockets are the only criterion for testing your right or wrong thoughts,
Let children learn, Robber-like courage, liar-like wisdom, thief-like skills, businessman-like integrity, politician-like system, literati-like culture, religious-like beliefs,
