Introduction
"My mother-in-law hugged the child and died in the hospital, no one cared about it."
A video began to circulate online yesterday.
An old man holding a child, although he couldn't see his face, he could feel her sadness through the screen. The voice-over is the child's father, and he said the above passage. Although the video is short and no specific faces are taken, it reveals a lot of information points, such as the child is gone, they are still in the hospital, and no one cares about the child at all. These keywords instantly hit the sympathy of many parents, and the video exploded very quickly.
However, the more explosive the video is, the faster the slap in the face will come.
will be released immediately. Please draw the key points: 's child is very healthy after birth (Ah's score is 10 points, crying loudly, and there is no obvious deformity in appearance). However, after 's father fed the child water, it was completely different (after feeding the water, he choked and thought the child was asleep), the doctor and nurse came to organize rescue, but although he tried his best, he could not save the child's life.
has no extra words in the entire notice, but it clearly explains the cause and consequence of the matter, and emphasizes the focus of the entire incident. The hospital did not shirk its responsibility, but also truthfully pointed out what the child’s father did, and did not say who did what he did and who did what he did, but a discerning person could see it at a glance.
Yes, not only is this child not unattended, but his father is "controlled" to death.
Parenting knowledge is within reach, but tragedies happen repeatedly
To be honest, when you look at this news, happy father feels very sad.
We are now a society with information explosion. All kinds of knowledge are within reach and you can find it on your phone without much effort. But we can still see all kinds of tragedies. For example, in the community where Happy Dad was in a while ago, a grandmother took the child to stroll. The child was running and eating winter dates while running. A accidentally stuffed the winter dates into his throat. If it weren't for the people watching next to him who were good at it and took photos of foreign objects in time with the regular Heimlikfa, the child might have had an unfortunate encounter.
can also see all kinds of incredible things.
: What feeds honey to newborn children? It is also called honey with high nutritional value, which is a good thing for children; what feeds newborn children with Wahaha ? It also says that this is milk, it looks the same as milk powder; let alone tie the child's hands and feet tightly, saying that it is to avoid outdated experiences such as O-shaped legs in the future.
Whenever I see these, I always feel an inexplicable heartache.
Are these correct parenting knowledge difficult to obtain?
is not difficult. Just as Happy Dad said, if you open your phone and enter keywords, you can find a lot of relevant correct knowledge. You don’t need to read more, and you can know it by looking at one or two. Are these correct parenting knowledge difficult to understand?
is not difficult. Although some parenting knowledge involves some professional terms, it still falls within the scope of understanding. After all, what we say is about things around us, and how we do it is also what we know; are correct parenting knowledge such as
difficult to practice?
is even more difficult. For example, the father in this video, if you have read a few articles on raising newborns, you will know that you should not try to feed the newborns water. You should try to let your mother breastfeed as much as possible. If it really doesn't work, you should feed a piece of milk powder, and it is a mixture of milk powder strictly according to the ratio of gouache.
Then why do tragedies happen frequently?
Many times, as a creator in the parenting field, Happy Dad is puzzled by himself why the child cannot speak when he is born, and can only cry constantly, hoping that his parents can understand their needs and expect to get satisfactory reply.
Perhaps this design is very smart, which can allow children to learn to adapt to the world through crying again and again, and can also allow parents to slowly discover their children's ideas in the chaos again and again.This is a process of mutual achievement, and it is also a process of growth between parents and children.
But many times, parents give up.
Still want to talk about some parenting knowledge involved in this video
Maybe many parents already know the parenting skills of newborns, but here happy dad still wants to talk too much about the parenting knowledge involved in this video.
takes care of newborns.
Newborns do not need to be fed water, they really do not need to be fed and they cannot be fed either.
The little colostrum of most mothers is enough for children to drink. Even if the mother has no breast milk for a while, she should feed her powder instead of water.
On the one hand, children have a small appetite and high demand for nutrition. Drinking water can easily squeeze out the already insufficient stomach space, affecting their healthy growth of nutrients;
On the other hand, newborns do not have a relatively mature swallowing ability, and they are more adapted to their mother's nipples and imitation pacifiers. All other feeding equipments are at risk of making the child choke.
In addition, if you give your baby too early, it will also increase the burden on their kidneys and cause difficulties in excretion.
Let’s talk about hiccup .
Generally speaking, newborns are prone to inconsistent swallowing due to the immature development of ontologies, and also due to poor esophageal development, the milk they drink cannot enter the digestive tract normally, so it is easy to choke.
The best way to deal with children choking is to burp.
For specific reasons, the child should lie on his side after he finishes breastfeeding. If he holds, he needs to hug him or burp him or her, and gently pat his or her back with a hollow fist. It will not end until the child burps.
Last
The so-called "I hate the lack of books when I use them", this is how to learn and raise children.
Happy father always feels that if you are not prepared, don’t want to have children. Whether it is financial, psychological or knowledge learning, after all, the momentary negligence of parents may affect the child’s life.
As a parent, you need to put in enough patience and care, put in enough energy and time to be on the same frequency as your children and allow your children to grow up healthily and happily, which requires a very high threshold.
not all parents are competent for the role of parents.
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