Many parents say that their children have a very bad temper, just like an explosive pack, which makes them very distressed.
Our parents told her experience:
He was angry and always wanted to grab something and throw it away. In the afternoon, because I didn't let him look at his phone, he got angry. He grabbed a bottle of cauliflower and threw it out, almost hitting his brother's head.
I asked him, you almost hit my brother, are you doing this right? He said: Yes.
competition Dad said
Our children, like normal children, have their own desires, but at the same time, is stereotyped and not good at expressing themselves, Therefore, the bad emotions in the heart are stronger. When there is a process or result development that does not set it according to one's own settings, there will be strong external manifestations, such as hitting, biting, etc.
Our mother encountered this situation. "Children want to play with their mobile phones" was a fuse. The mother's refusal made him pick up the cocodile water and throw it out. This is a very dangerous behavior. It may hurt people around him, but he is not aware of his mistake.
Suggestions:
1. Improve children's expression ability
In "Round Table", Professor Li Meijin talked about the irritability of children, and said: "Children with strong expression ability have inner strength and will not choose to use violence as a weapon. "
And our children's expression and communication skills are shortcomings, so, we must work harder to improve children's expression ability , for example, parent-child reading for children.
2. Help children find a safe outlet to calm their emotions
When children get angry, they will easily cause harm to themselves or others. Therefore, we must choose some other ways to get out of anger.
For example, you can listen to some emotional comfort music to calm him down slowly.
I often recommend that parents set a calm corner at home. When the child has a strong mood, let the child sit and calm down for a while. Many parents say that this has become the calm corner for the whole family.
3. Read emotional picture books with children
Now, there are many excellent emotional picture books, which can also help children deal with violent emotions.
For example: "Balloon Bear" is very good. It combines the emotional changes of the bear with the changes of the balloon. After watching it, the child feels very interesting and will establish a connection with himself. When the child is so angry, you can say "I'll let the angry bear down" and press it on his belly, and the child will not help laughing.
In addition, "The Prince of Angry" is also a magical tool for dealing with bad tempers.
If the child has a bad temper, the three tricks of the competition father help the child extinguish the fire.
