The second child policy that was opened on January 1, 2016, before that, the people around you had a second child. Seeing the soft little girl around someone else, I felt envious and discussed with my husband that I planned to have a second child. So I stopped contraceptive measures and planned to let it go, but there was no movement for a year.
The second child policy has been opened, and I am even more moved. At this time, I started to go to the hospital. I heard that fallopian tube blockage will cause infertility. I went to the township hospital to pass the fallopian tube, and it was okay. Then I went to , , and the doctor said nothing, and prescribed medicine for him to come back to take it. After taking it for a month, my colleague told me that it would not work, so I asked me to go to the city hospital and recommended a doctor to me. From then on, I embarked on the road to slowly seeking a child.
After examination, I was not ovulating well, so I went to the hospital on the fifth day of each period. The doctor prescribed medicine mainly to Quzhu and trace element tablets. On the tenth day, I started monitoring follicles follicles once a day between them, and once a day when they are about to mature. Not to mention the hardships in the middle.
After some tossing and testing test paper , the color is a bit light. (Remind everyone to always have light colors to check in time) But because everything went smoothly when I was old, I didn’t care at all, but one afternoon my stomach hurt a little and I saw a little redness. I went to the hospital to check it out. The B ultra- test was not pregnant, and the red line on the test strip disappeared. The doctor told me that it was a fake pregnancy. (I don’t trust this doctor since then) I should do whatever I should go back. After I got back, I was worried about calling my sister tonight. She asked me to go to the city for examination the next day. I felt the pain worsening at night and immediately went to the city. (She was already suspicious and was afraid that I would not dare to tell me) I went to the checkup the next day and it was indeed ectopic pregnancy .
was treated conservatively at the beginning, but the examination was not effective after three days, so I had to have surgery. I asked an acquaintance and suggested an open surgery, saying that the minimally invasive technology in the hospital did not last long and was afraid that it would not be mature. Thank you very much for this acquaintance, and I will talk about the reason later.
After resting for half a year, I started my journey of seeking a child again. Let me tell you here that people really have obsessions. The more they can’t get, the more they want them. At that time, I wanted to have a child, and my wishes would also be reduced. At the beginning, I especially wanted to have a daughter, and I also listened to other people’s folk remedies to adjust acidity and alkalinity, but later I had a wish, as long as I had a healthy child.
After struggling for a few more months, I finally got pregnant. This time I didn’t dare to be careless and hurried to have a B-ultrasound for more than 40 days. I was sure that it was a happy uterus and told me not long after that that I was not developing well and prescribed medicine to protect the fetus. Until 70 days, there was no fetal heart . I didn't give up and ran to the city to confirm, but I still decided that the fetal stop was still there. At that moment, I felt that my heart was dead. I feel I won't have children again in the future.
tells everyone that I really had a daughter later, who is almost four years old [grin] [grin], God still loves me!
