Good Family education can cultivate children into talents. The wrong way of tutoring will destroy the child invisibly.
Every child has a unique soul. As parents, we must learn to respect their ideas and personalities and guide them to grow up correctly. Instead of blindly asking children to be obedient, just like an puppet , you only know how to obey orders and have no idea of your own. Such a child is just an empty bag when he grows up!
The wrong way of education made me ruin my child with my own hands!
Son An An is a child from someone else's family in the eyes of his neighbor. He is not only sensible and polite, but also very considerate and caring. Although he is only 12 years old, he is very mature inside. It was such an angel child who was recently diagnosed with depression . At first, I didn’t believe the doctor’s diagnosis.
So, I took my child to two other hospitals, but the conclusions I came to were exactly the same. I have always believed that my educational methods are perfect, which is also an important reason why my son is sensible. It was not until this moment that I realized that my son’s depression was caused by me.
My son disliked me very much and even commented on me as a "tigress". He always yelled at him and scolded him, not as friends as other children's mothers. Indeed, I have been very strict in my education of children since I was a child, because in my subconscious mind, I always think that boys should be treated severely so that they can be obedient.
So, when my son has conflicts with others, I always teach my son to be tolerant. When my son is bullied, I always scold the child and ask him to find the reason from himself. When he makes certain requests, I never refuse without thinking. I worry that my son will be flattered.
htmlFor more than 110 years, I have always asked my child to be obedient, sensible, polite, and know how to share, but I have never considered any issues from his standpoint.
It was not until this incident that I truly realized that I was not a qualified mother. As the child grows up, I put forward many requirements for him. He did it, but he lost himself and became an empty face, blindly obedient.
Good parents and good tutors! Family education method is very important
Every child is a unique individual. They have their own ideas and cognition. As parents, when facing anything, we should consider it from the perspective of our children and understand and respect their ideas, rather than just suppressing and blindly demanding. In this way, when children grow up, they will only become giant babies and puppets.
Imagine how terrible a child without a soul would be?
Family is the first dyeing vat
School, teachers, classmates, society, are not the first environment and things that children come into contact with. But the family is the first environment for children to come into contact with. Parents are the children's first teachers.
Family is like a dyeing vat. What color will the child in the future depend on what color the family will dye the child into. If parents do not know how to be good teachers and friends for their children, do not know how to train their children to respect themselves, and do not know how to make friends with them, let their children learn to be filial to themselves. Even parents do not even give their children the right to be their own, making their children extremely unhappy. So, how failed some family education should be!
I hope every mother can read this article seriously, correct the wrong educational methods from this moment to guide children to grow up healthily, and must not just blindly limit children's personality and ignore the importance of tutoring. Otherwise, I will regret it!
So, how to provide correct family education for children?
Read more books, and learn from the books family education methods
Parents raise children, but they cannot do without knowledge. Later, I changed myself, improved my cognition, and used the methods in the book to become good friends with my children. I wrote to my children and built a bridge of communication.I talked to the child on the phone, criticized and corrected the child with soft words, helped the child make friends, and made the child happy.
According to the concept in the book, I give children space to guide them to think independently, temper their will, cultivate their gratitude, educate their patriotism, and pay attention to their physical and mental health. Sure enough, this way of family education has changed the life trajectory of children and my family.
Nowadays, children have changed a lot in books and my practical methods. The children are very happy and very happy, and have become strong people in life. This is the significance of family education and the reason why every parent should work hard to make progress.
