Parenting Sharing
⚠️The phenomenon of setting "conditions" for love is not uncommon in life:
You have to be good, but if you don’t mom, you won’t love
If you finish eating, I will take you out to play
If you don’t obey, I won’t buy you toys
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⚠️ “If you don’t………‼️” sentence format , parents want their children to be obedient and obey themselves. In order to keep their parents' love, the children will never please their parents and gradually develop into a good personality
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⚠️What are the characteristics of pleasing people's personality ❓
1⃣️If you don't know how to reject others, even if you are cruel, don't say "no" to others, you will feel at ease.
2⃣️ Always take the initiative to cater to others. Whether you are not making mistakes, you will take the initiative to bear the responsibility.
3⃣️ He is very sensitive to others and is afraid of conflicts and conflicts.
4⃣️Worrying to cause trouble for others, you are always the only one who can eliminate the negative emotions of your face.
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⚠️ Avoid asking for good people Type, use these 6 sentences
Whether you... or... I love you very much (given 2 examples, it is more courageous/feared/serious/silly)
I want to hear what you see... (ask your child’s opinion on important things)
You are really attentive... (When you see your child trying to accomplish something)
I am happy to see you... (Add the child to join the child I like to do activities)
Thank you for your thanks... (Lie Chi-Ji Zi has done positive behavior)
I saw you help... (Lie Chi-Ji Zi has done helpful things)
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⚠️ Avoid asking for good personality, and tell the child these 9 sentences
1⃣️Don't worry about the good personality, just It is because love is for you. There are no conditions for this love. Do you need to repay us. Our greatest wish is to make you a happy self
2⃣️ It’s just that you don’t have to share it with others. Don’t have to be wronged for others. You can’t make everyone the same as you think. You can’t make everyone like you, so you don’t need to In the eyes of others,
4⃣️Do you need to please anyone, except yourself
5⃣️If friends are rejected, it does not mean that you are bad. If you really make friends, make each other happy
6⃣️It is important to express your feelings in a frank way. People who truly love you are willing to listen to
7 ⃣️Dad will love you forever. Even if you make a mistake, we will stand on the same side as you, find a way to face
8⃣️Don’t worry about whether others like you or not, you must first like you and consider your own needs in advance. This is not selfish. You only take care of yourself and make yourself happy. You will have the spare time to take care of others.
