Seeing that there are not many people in the office, my colleague Xiaona complained to us, what's going on?
Xiaona said listlessly that her son had been in kindergarten less than 3 months and received a lot of private messages from the child's head teacher. Now, when she saw the teacher's private messages, she was upset. What are the child’s teacher and Xiaona talking about?
It turns out that the child's performance in kindergarten made the teacher very dissatisfied. When the teacher was in class, he stood up and walked around the classroom. When it was time for dinner, my son was not sitting in his own position, but running around with the food...
, it turns out that the child did not abide by the rules in kindergarten. teacher complained to Xiaona that the child came to .
Xiaona said she regretted it. Her son is too young, only 2 years and 7 months old, less than 3 years old, so she sent her child to kindergarten too early.
, Yingzi next to him said, "I think it's enough for a child to go to kindergarten, but if we have a home-based education, the kindergarten teacher is professional, the child will benefit from it sooner.
Mother Yanzi said: My family went to kindergarten at the age of two, but the resistance is weak, and they always catch a cold and a fever. The child didn’t learn anything, and his health was delayed. Later, the second baby was brought to him until he was three years old, so it was much better.
Going to kindergarten is the beginning of a new stage for children. kindergarten is a large collective , which allows children to enhance their children's social skills by knowing other children and adults and playing with others.
In addition, kindergartens can also allow children to accept a series of rules. If the child does not have any chance to meet other children, then will benefit him a lot by letting the child go to kindergarten .
Kindergartens with good resources can also help children fully prepare for primary school.
If the daily arrangements of the kindergarten are consistent with the child's physical development level and are conducive to the child's emotional development, then the child's can make a smooth transition when he is in elementary school and adapt to primary school life more quickly.
Letting children go to kindergarten is not only beneficial to children. And it is also beneficial for us parents. For example, some mothers need to return to the workplace, or have many children at home, and cannot take care of so many children...
No matter what situation you are in, sending your child to kindergarten will provide you with convenience .
Since there are so many benefits to let your child go to kindergarten, then let’s return to the topic discussed by several mothers before, how old is the baby to send to kindergarten?
The book "Must Reading for Parents of Young Children" talks about the fact that children over 3 years old basically have a certain ability to take care of themselves, can communicate with their peers and teachers in a simple way, and can basically resist the anxiety of separation, and can be sent to kindergarten.
However, the specific time for children to enter kindergarten should be determined based on their physical and mental development level. Don’t worry about how old the child is to go to kindergarten. If there are 4 aspects, please feel free to let the child go.
①Children have certain language expression skills
Children are at home, and most families have at least one adult to take care of one child, and some families even take care of a few adults.
But in kindergarten, like my daughter's class, plus three life teachers, there are only 30 children in the class. The three teachers face so many children, and it is impossible for them to take care of every child at all times.
This requires children to have the ability to express discomfort or problems clearly. For example: Where does the child feel uncomfortable, wet his pants, thirsty, wanting to urinate and defecate, etc.
If the child can clearly express his needs, it can reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble.
② Children have good immunity
Early childhood is the peak period for individual body growth and development. From birth to 6 years old, the development and growth rate of skeletal muscles and internal organs is very fast, which is called the "growth fever" period.
At this stage, children's physical constitution is generally weak and prone to invasion of bacteria.
Children who are just entering kindergarten will have contact with many peers on the one hand; on the other hand, they will feel anxious due to separation from their parents.If you have poor immunity, you will easily get infected, and will affect your child's health and .
htmlAfter the age of 03, the immunity of children can generally reach 2/3 of that of adults. The immunity will continue to increase as they age, so babies with poor physical fitness can enter the kindergarten later.
③ Children must have a certain ability to take care of themselves
Life self-care ability refers to the ability of children to take care of their own lives in daily life. It is the most basic life skills a person should have.
For example, before entering the garden, the baby should have the ability to wash his hands, wipe his face, relieve his urine, take off his clothes and eat independently.
Before our daughter entered the kindergarten, I would also consciously teach children these life skills. After the child entered the kindergarten, he rarely cried and was deeply loved by the teacher. He became the class monitor in the second half of the semester of the small class.
Kindergartens are places for collective life, no longer have one-on-one care from grandparents, grandparents, parents, and many things need to be done independently by children.
Children have certain self-care ability, which can help children integrate into the collective life of kindergartens and adapt to collective life more quickly.
④ Children must have certain communication skills
From the perspective of children's social development, the scope of interaction between children before the age of 3 is still mainly in the family. They have no basic concepts of friendship and sense of communication.
If the child knows to be humble in collective life before entering the kindergarten, has a certain sense of sharing, can play with the children, can express his feelings and listen to other people's thoughts in words. Only when children like
can they better adapt to the environment of the kindergarten and integrate into the kindergarten family.
In addition, some children are not strongly dependent on their parents and are relatively independent. There is no problem for such children to enter the kindergarten.
On the contrary, some children rely too much on their parents and are afraid to date strangers. Such children may take longer to learn to date with their peers.
