The concept of "raising children to prevent old age" is deeply rooted.
Many older generations have this idea.
Is raising children really protecting themselves from old age?
cannot be prevented. People still have to grow old when they should grow old! It’s not that there are too many children, but that there are too few children, but that there are too few children, but that there are too few children, but that there are too few people, but that there are too few people, but that there are too few people.
There are many children, but they are not filial, and no matter how many children there are, it will be useless; there are few children, but they are filial, and one or two can match the group.
In fact, there are only two kinds of differences between multiple-child families and only-child families in the eyes of the elderly.
Is it filial to
Children who are filial to parents can still move forward in harmony even if there are many children.
Attitude to the elderly, whoever has time will take care of them, and whoever has no time will pay for them, children all want to do their filial piety to the elderly, they will not compete with each other, and will not push back and forth.
But if there are many children, one side of the child is unfilial and does not want to be filial to the elderly, calculate and shirk each other, compare and fight each other, then the most painful thing for the elderly.
Old man Zhang has five children, but he is still choosing to live alone at the age of 80.
What he said to outsiders is that he doesn’t want to be with the children, which disturbs Qingjing. In fact, people who are familiar with Old Man Zhang know that the children have a lot of controversy over which house he goes to.
From one year to another, the family has been supported for half a year, Old Man Zhang and his neighbors said that he had not been with everyone for two days, and he was sent to his second home again in a blink of an eye.
He is old and doesn't want to make trouble. Instead of letting his children take turns to support him, it is better to live alone.
In fact, what makes Old Man Zhang feel disappointed is not that the children are not filial.
The children treated him very well. Even when they were almost half a year, there was no child. I wanted to keep Old Man Zhang for an extra month, as if I was suffering a loss in this way.
Old man Zhang raised five children in his life, but when he was old, he felt very lonely.
More or less children really have nothing to do with happiness in old age. The more fun you have, the less purity you have, it depends on whether you can raise children who are filial to your parents.
Is it true?
The happiest thing in this life is to raise children with good character.
Diligent and willing to work outside, tolerant and kind to others, and tolerate and be filial to the elderly and take care of the family. No matter one or several such children are the greatest comfort for the elderly.
In fact, when people get old, sometimes they are not worried about their poor life, but they are worried about the most that their children are not doing well.
Anyone who always wants to take advantage of the situation, do not do your job properly, drink and play cards, and often quarrel with their partners. For the elderly, it is undoubtedly the most worrying thing.
The biggest grievance for the elderly in their later years is to raise children with inappropriate character, plot against themselves, and their brothers and sisters. Anyone with such a child is enough to worry the elderly.
Endurance and care for the elderly is to nourish the body and the heart.
If you don’t have a happy and peaceful life, if you have a child who makes you particularly worry and worry, the elderly will have a difficult life.
Of course, if the education is good, children will be very filial. There is an old saying: "More children and more blessings!" For the elderly, if children have more children, their old age will be more harmonious and happier!
Every child is raised by his parents with hard work. He wants them to have better character, be motivated, and have a stable life.
Raise children with good character and know that children who are filial to their parents are the more they are better for the elderly!
No matter how poor you are, you cannot be poor in education, and no matter how difficult it is, you cannot be ignorant of your conscience! Being the correct guide for children and cultivating children with good character is the greatest cause of every parent!
