poison textbook has not been long since passed. Yesterday I saw the hot search for "poison picture books" on Weibo .
I have to say that since the "poisonous textbook", parents are now like frightened birds. Many people have begun to search through the major picture books and books at home, fearing that one of them will not pay attention to it and will have any subtle negative impact on their children.
Seeing this title, it is difficult for parents to not click in and read. Even if it is not parents, they should be curious about which book is so explicit?
So I clicked in with a little longing, a little curiosity and a little critical spirit.
This picture comes from a children's interactive flip book called "Ship 100 Three-dimensional Book". As soon as the title of the book was released, it was basically on the blacklist of parents.
In the title of this book "Busy Pier", there is a cruise ship. The cruise ship has four interactive windows that can be opened, and one of the windows is this picture.
I have to say that it was really scary to open the lid. Even I, who has always been more open-minded, felt that this picture was not very OK for the child to show it. Is the scale a bit large? Do you have to be a massage? Can't you do something other serious? For example, reading...
However, Rong's mother is also a deep massage enthusiast. Because of long-term typing, there are often problems with her shoulders and neck, so most of my nightlife with Rong's father and I went to massage venues.
It is said that taking off naked massage is normal. When the technician massages the upper body, he will cover a blanket (the lower body will not wear anything). Just from the massage, the picture does indeed restore the massage scene operation.
Of course, there are many massage places in China that allow customers to change their yukatas, so they will not be completely naked. But to be honest, I personally think it is the most comfortable to take off naked massage... The topic went off the wrong way~
is talking about this, not to make excuses for this book, but just to say that if Brother Rong and Sister Yi saw this picture, they asked me curiously what these two people were doing?
I think I can explain to them seriously without any lewdness and why they are naked.
After all, the female technician or male customer in the picture has normal expressions. If you don’t guide you in a wrong way, your child will naturally not think in a wrong way.
Many netizens also said, isn’t this covered with a blanket? Do you wear a sweater if you don’t take off your naked massage? Can the children be seen with bare hands? Where is the child's father wearing shorts at home with shirtlessness? Should we drive him out too?
chapter is rough and not rough. As a parent, I am always on the side of netizens.
We can’t put children in aseptic room to grow up. We also regard normal nudity as eye-catching. I think it’s overcorrect, so there is no need to.
The most serious thing is that the momentum of closing your eyes, unable to watch, and quickly pinching other broadcasts seems to be a bit like a prairie fire. This time, many popular classic picture books were criticized by netizens, and the first of them was "HTM1's Different Carmela ".
You should know that "The Different Carmela" is such a famous picture book as "My Dad", "My Mom", and . It has been sold to the whole world for so many years! The picture books that thousands of parents have read, are they all blind?
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This picture is very problematic. It teaches children to exclude similar people and even swear words "get out"!
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This is not good either. The scene is too violent. Not only do you teach your children to fight in groups, but you also use uncivilized and clamoring words. You can use "meat sauce" to speak harshly at a young age. Maybe you have to go to the minority management office ?
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I'll have some pictures that are not suitable for children. Can children watch kissing? There are still so many people watching, aren’t you ashamed? Wouldn't you feel ashamed?
In addition to "The Different Carmela", " David Can't " is also said to be the negative teaching material for educating children because it gives children all kinds of naughty mistakes.
, especially the lying out with bare ass, isn’t this teaching children to be ashamed? Very worrying!
There are also many picture books imported from abroad, which contain images of binding, burning, and cutting, which is simply too bloody!
Think about it, what do children know? These pictures are tantamount to telling them that you can curse people, you can chop people into meat sauce, you can burn a knife to kill, you can kiss them... Once the child imitates, the consequences will be unimaginable!
day! This is a terrifying dark picture book! Hurry up and take my baby away and stay away from "poisonous picture books"!
day! I already feel the taste of the Cultural Revolution?
vulgar aesthetics and dross ideas must be removed, but we can't be in a panic or literary inquisition , right?
This reminds me of when Sister Yi was two years old, I was planning Douyin in a maternal and child Internet company. At that time, I was smiling after I drew the characters in the animation department.
A shot of a mother feeding her clothes, wearing them directly to the high collar, let alone cleavage, your neck is not allowed to be seen. Is this called breastfeeding?
Even if you have never fed milk, people should always have common sense in life. How to feed them while wearing clothes?
Results A colleague in the animation department gave me a laughing and crying answer: "The low-cut picture cannot pass the review..."
You should know that the breasts are not a beast, it is a very important human organ. It is a one-size-fits-all approach to painting. Isn't this the same as having a Teresa Teng tape at home and then grabbing her and saying she is an capitalist lackey?
The above scales will be reported, so don’t listen to fairy tales you listened to when you were a child.
What Cinderella's sister cut off her heel and shed a live blood. Snow White's stepmother jumped to death on her hot iron shoes. She was afraid she couldn't listen to the story of cutting her hands and feet in one thousand and one night.
The child is indeed immature, but he is not brainless. Does he not think about it? Do you know what is right or wrong?
If we always place our child in a fictional world of truth, goodness and beauty, how do you let him recognize the ugly side of reality in the future?
Children can be ignorant of the world, but they will not always be children. Isn’t it a very important lesson for children to grow up to face a fucking miserable life?
In my opinion, whether it is "The Different Carmela" or "David Goes to School", they are rare and good picture books. They vividly depict many interesting stories, which fit the behavior and thinking of children. Children of this age can do these things!
Can you ensure that your child will not say "get out" if he doesn't read these picture books?
is impossible.Children in the language sensitive period will remember as long as they hear someone say "get out", because the word "get out" is a very powerful language!
Just for a "get out", I put "Different Carmela" in the bottom of the box. Isn't this killing the chicken to get the eggs?
It can be said that as long as he socializes and contacts the outside world, it will be a matter of time before he learns the word "get out".
Even Sister Yi would say without any hesitation when she was having sex with her brother: "Get out!"
Step back and say that when the child meets a hateful, annoying, and prank bad guy, I don't think there is anything wrong with saying "Get out"!
If you can overwhelm the other party in terms of momentum and prevent the other party from doing things that are not good for you, then I think you just say it and you have to say "I did a pretty job."
In today's informatization, we can not buy books for our children, but can you stop them from going to school, watching TV, playing with mobile phones, or watching APPs and other social software? The messy things in various short videos of Kuaishou and Douyin are much more exciting than in picture books! Can you control it?
Covering is the easiest way to arouse children's curiosity. What we really need to do is to guide children to view certain bad things correctly, rather than helping them identify good or bad things and hide them all.
Our generation of children watched the cat and mouse in "Black Cat Sheriff" sucking the blood of the white cat police officer, watch the new White Snake legend in "" and Bai Suzhen turned into a big snake, watch the Daji in " The Gods List " and the Daji in "" and the gaze of the heart. No one has seen a long way to go?
If you want to talk about the heavy-mouthed drama, "The Investiture of the Gods" must have a name. Queen Jiang's romance is a shadow of childhood. I feel pain every time I watch it! I would also respect her as a man in my heart!
I didn’t want to try it, does it hurt so much if you dig your eyes! Who would imitate these normal people?
If the child is mentally abnormal, what we need to do is to reflect on whether we have not guided us properly. Should we see a psychologist and give the blame to the "Fengshen Bang" make sense?
and this set of "Chinese Nursery Rhymes" have won many international awards.
Each of the pictures above is from children aged 8-15. They are created by children with their imagination. They include prints, embroidery and New Year pictures of various original ecology and ethnic groups. Each picture is strictly checked by the quality inspection teacher before it is published and launched.
As a result, parents also reported that it was "dark wind" and "ghostly terrifying"!
is clearly a book that promotes Chinese traditional culture , but it is called "weird". I really feel sad for the aesthetics of the Chinese people.
You think your child will be scared when he reads it. Just don’t read it, but you can’t deprive others of the right to choose.
Aesthetics are something that varies from person to person. If you can’t appreciate it, there is no need to encourage everyone to boycott it! What's more, the authors of these paintings are all children. Don't children understand what children like?
We must believe that even children can establish correct views on right and wrong and values. Even children, as long as you speak carefully, they can embrace all rivers like the sea, and he can accept the amount of information.
Whether it is reading picture books or watching TV series, it actually requires parents' guidance. In a story, there are always all kinds of characters, good, bad, good and bad...
What are the good people, what are bad guys, what are bad guys? What do we need to learn and abandon, and explain them clearly to our children?
If we don’t even dare to let the child know the words “get out” or “beat you into meat sauce”, how can we tell him that these words are bad, hurtful, and vulgar?
If the child does not think these words are hurtful and uneducated, once he learns them from other children, he will blurt out openly and will not feel ashamed! By then, it will be difficult for us to stop it.
Children's book review should be strictly investigated and banned for those pathological and ideological distorted things, but everything should be focused on a single level. It is wrong to overcorrect it.
Why is "The Different Carmela" praised by so many people? Because the chickens in this group of chicken coops have taught children to be brave, independent, and full of imagination, and teach children what family, friendship and love are. These are the most normal feelings for human beings, and children should know.
and the "David" series. Although he is a naughty child and always causes trouble, he will apologize and feel disappointed and sad. These are things that children should experience at this age. And the end of the story always tells the child that even if you are naughty and annoyed me, your parents still love you!
Only people with narrow hearts will have problems with everything they see. With a broad mind and a broad pattern, anything can become positive energy.
Children need controversial knowledge to enrich their horizons. You have to give them the opportunity to deviate and have room to make mistakes in order to correct the situation, right? In a person's growth path, making mistakes and then correcting is a very necessary educational method.
So I think the attack and mistakes of children's picture books that are almost clean and negligent is narrow-minded and completely unnecessary.
I would be more willing to face and explain directly than hide and erase. When I saw naked bodies tell him about human bodies, when I saw burning, killing, looting, and compassion, when I saw kissing me, I told him about love and care.
Everything you see narrowly in your heart is yellow, and everything you see openly in your heart is colorful.
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