Adult lies, whether kind or bad, can always find reasons to defend themselves and become high-sounding.
In fact, children's lying does not require any excuses or reasons, it is purely out of their true nature.
When my child was in kindergarten, he told me one day that he lied to the teacher. Because a piece of cake fell to the ground, the teacher couldn't find which child got it, so he had to punish the whole class to go to another classroom to think about his mistakes.
The child said, "I was worried that my mother would not be able to find me when she came to pick me up, so I told the teacher that I had it myself. It was really not me."
How I felt so sorry for the struggles made by this little person under the control of the adult world.
I went to elementary school, and there were two things that impressed me.
Once, I met the child who came out of the convenience store and shared snacks while saying to the child, "Don't tell my mother."
I was amused when I heard this, so I asked, "What are you not telling my mother?"
The child looked up and saw me, and was stunned for a moment, his face turned red.
This incident made me regret. Why did I expose this little secret of my child?
What are the benefits of putting the child in an embarrassing place?
In the second and third grades of elementary school, the child would bring back a small piece of pencil head every day. If you say you performed well in school, the teacher would reward you with a pencil tip.
lasted for more than a month, and I asked the child: "Why did your teacher save so many pencil heads?"
The child said timidly: "Mom, it is not the teacher who rewards me, but I picked it up from the ground myself. There are many pencil heads on the ground in school every day. I picked it up and handed it to the teacher for the first time, and the teacher asked me to hold it myself."
I don't think the child is doing something wrong.
The living conditions at home are quite affordable, and the children do not lack pens, and the pens they pick up are all in one box.
Children do this only because of a natural reaction to the phenomenon of waste.
Think carefully, do we really need to be so nervous about the so-called lies of children?
Is that the child’s thoughts, maturity and transformation in the process of growing up?
As adults, can’t we just see the appearance of “children lying”, and should also explore the truth of “children lying”?
