On October 11, in Jingmen, Hubei, a woman and her 6-year-old son "breaking relationship" due to learning problems. The mother and son began to have a cold war. The mother decided not to cook for her son. When it was time to dinner, the son did not ask her to cook. When he walked to the kitchen, he was amused and laughed. The woman found that her son was squatting in the kitchen, holding a small stool as a table to chop carrots. The little figure was pitiful and helpless. The woman felt sad and funny when she looked at it. She said that she would rather cook by herself than apologize to her mother. The mother said that she knew that her son had the ability to do it, so she let him do it. But she didn't expect that her son was so stubborn and felt angry and funny.
The young man has ambition, and it will definitely work to use this energy to study! Jingmen, Hubei, on October 11, a mother and her 6-year-old son had disagreements due to learning problems, which led to a "breakdown". The mother and son began to have a cold war. The mother decided not to cook for her son. When the mother saw that the son was ordered at 6 o'clock in the evening, her son did not ask her to cook. So she walked to the kitchen and saw that she was laughing and crying. It turned out that her son was squatting in the kitchen, holding a small stool as a table to chop carrots and make fried eggs for carrots. The little figure was both pitiful and helpless. She said that her son would rather cook by himself than apologize to her mother. The mother said that she knew that her son had the ability to do it, so she let him do it, but she didn't expect her son to be so stubborn.
Isn’t it because he found out that he can do it himself? He will do it himself in the future... Surprise
I am afraid that if he is older, the child will not stay here and run away from home and wander. It’s just that he is not good at studying, and it is not unforgivable. He has the fate to be a mother and son in this life, but he doesn’t know if he will have a mother and son relationship in the next life. Love him well!
A friend said: It’s time to praise you at this time. My son is so great. In fact, the child is so young, don’t pay too much attention to homework. The boy was mature late, so your tone must not be very good at that time.
My son was 11 years old and made me so angry that I didn’t cook. My husband also gave him guidance for the shredded potatoes he fried. Let two spoons of salt and pour soy sauce, and the vegetables are fried black and salty. I thought it was both pitiful and ridiculous, so I mixed it with another cold dish. People said that I had fried it myself and had finished it.
My son is too slow to do his homework. I endured it and endured it. When I couldn't help it, I went out to calm down for two minutes. I couldn't bear it and I felt so angry that I didn't want to beat it. This was just the beginning. The road to school in the future is still long. I wonder if it would be better if it was older.
Is it my own since I was a child? I am only six years old, and the relationship between mother and son is so tense [I want to be quiet] My son is over five years old. If I get angry, he will come over. "Mom, I'm wrong~ Give me another chance~ Mom, I love you!" He also coaxes the teacher in kindergarten. "Teacher, I miss you because I'm on vacation, but unfortunately I don't know your number didn't call you!" The teacher likes him very much. In modern society, emotional intelligence is far more important than IQ.
I never have a cold war with my son. If it were my reason, I would show weakness and say sorry. I would tell my child’s fault. When he was in a stable mood, I would tell him the reason. Just like what my son told us, mom and dad, you should cherish the time we spent together. In the future, I won’t have so much time with you when I go to middle school! ! !
If your son is really wrong, you should apologize. It’s not necessary. He wants to cook by himself and let him do it himself. Exercise is also good.
This way, educating children is prone to adverse effects, and psychologically and personality problems occur. Conflicts and oppositions with children should be eliminated as soon as possible. Use care or humor to approach induce children, and teach them to be generous and cheerful, because this is what people need to enter society... I wish you a mother and a son to make up as soon as possible!
I remember that when I was five or six years old, I gasped with my mother for some reason, and didn't eat vegetables, and ate all the meals (think now, this is my last stubbornness. Who should I scare? After a meal or two, my father took advantage of the gap when my mother went to add rice to the rice and grabbed two pieces of meat for me and hid it under the rice. He also gave me a wink and a gesture of quitting. I dared to feed it quickly, and I didn't forget to hide the rest, but when my mother came back, I still didn't collapse. Oh my god, the meat is so fragrant. We have been a person who knows how to advance and retreat since childhood. What's the face, especially compared to delicious food, nothing is it.
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