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When I was a child, my family was not rich. My mother always said that I should count on living my life, and I wish I could break it into half a penny, and I would never buy things that I can buy or not.
In her opinion, the clothes are just for keeping warm and don’t care about them. So in my impression, I seem to have never worn any new clothes and always pick up my brother's old clothes to wear.
Although I am a girl, what's the difference!
In order not to make these old clothes worn on them look so eye-catching, my mother even cut me a little man's hairstyle, which made me even more "How can I tell if I am male or female".
Until one day, the classmate talked about it during the break: ** always picks up his brother's old clothes to wear, making it look ugly!
I pretended not to hear it, bypassed them, sat back at my desk, and held back the tears that were about to fall.
When I got home at night, I locked myself in the room and didn't eat dinner. My father asked me what was wrong. I couldn't help feeling wronged anymore. I fell into my father's arms and sobbed and said:
"I will never wear my brother's old clothes anymore. I want to be a girl!"
It was a cold early winter morning. My father was riding a bicycle. I sat in the back seat. The cold wind blew off the dead leaves on the side of the road, but my heart was warm:
Dad spent 80 yuan to buy me a red cotton coat.
Put on my new clothes, I looked in the mirror repeatedly, my fair skin shining against the red background, my eyes full of smiles, and I actually found that I was born so beautiful.
I jumped and ran to find my mother, wanting her to see me wearing new clothes. The door was not closed, but there were quarrels from inside.
"You are really willing to do it! I am trying hard to save, but you spend money indiscriminately!"
"What is it called spending money indiscriminately when you use it on children?"
"You can wear some clothes, what good looks! My son is about to go to junior high school, and there are many places to spend money!"
" You only have son, my daughter, my own baby!"
Later, my father left on a bicycle and said he was working overtime in the factory. I knew he was going to earn the overtime pay of that few dollars.
Looking at my father's distant back, tears flowed down again. From that day on, I secretly swear in my heart:
When I grow up in the future, I must become very rich and very rich!
went to college, and I left home for the first time. The unknown world is full of novelty, but what remains unchanged is that I am still poor. My roommates are using cosmetics that cost hundreds of dollars a day, and I am still washing my face with soap.
When they were discussing the new and beautiful new models of a certain brand, I had no choice but to leave silently and go to the library to read books.
I started working crazily. On Sugar and Wine Club , I earned a month of living expenses a week and used the money I earned myself for the first time in my life to buy a shirt for my father.
graduating from university, I gave up my major and chose to be a salesperson. It's nothing, I just heard that sales can make money.
It took me 3 months to sign in a large order and get a commission of 100,000. I'm less than 25 years old, I've earned a million yuan a year.
With a keen sense of business, at the age of 30, I started my own business alone and wanted to create new glory. But I didn’t expect that my destiny would give me a heavy blow, which made me fall to the bottom.
Failure is not scary, as long as you have the courage to stand up again.
I spent 3 months teaching myself to write, from a novice to a contracted author; I spent another 3 months, from a newcomer to a training blogger with tens of thousands of fans.
Nowadays, I earn more than 10,000 yuan a month by writing, and I can support myself without leaving home. I can buy the clothes I want to buy at will, or I can take a trip that I can go on at any time.
I will never have to look at other people's faces with money, and I will never make my life embarrassed because of money.It is the pain of the past that makes me firm, brave and optimistic.
That I, who is at the bottom of society, is willing to try my best to strive for it even if it has a glimmer of hope.
Because she knew that this might be the only chance she could hold.
I think being beaten by society is a necessary price for growth. Along the way, I clumsyly persisted, and made many seemingly stupid efforts for an unknown result.
1000 More than unknown nights, I worked hard on the lights and wrote my life without asking about the results. Fortunately, I didn't give up.
The years of hard work finally made me understand the meaning of making money:
In order to live more decent and confidently in this material world; in order to hold your destiny as tightly as possible, rather than being passively chosen by life.
"You must love something, just like the love of plants and trees for time." Wang Zengqi 's words have always been deeply loved by my heart.
Life is like autumn, the plants and trees come like wind and rain, and go like dust. If you don’t love anything, you always feel that life is too dull. There should always be a few things that deserve our sincerity and sincerity.
I am a person who recognizes himself as a common man, enjoying the passing years of water in the firewood, rice, oil and salt, and doing my best to turn the course when the wind and rain are in turmoil.
escaping from the chaotic life and breaking away from the glittering world. Think quietly, write hard, live seriously, love the ordinary sun and moon, and love the vast world.
is so good.
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