Today I accidentally saw a message about using assisted reproductive to relieve remaining anxiety, which touched me deeply. As a second child born in the 1990s, I stood up with my head held high and my chest held high. I gave birth to a natural birth 7.2 kilograms and my second child 8.2 kilograms and I didn’t have any pain. Isn’t it the heroic mother of this new era?
sees a set of data: "One year after the three-child policy is relaxed, the birth rate of China's population is still on a downward trend. National Bureau of Statistics data shows that the national birth population in 2021 is 10.62 million, and the birth rate of population further dropped to 7.52 per thousand. However, various signs show that the domestic assisted reproductive industry has not declined like obstetrics. The aging of patients is obvious. Under the suggestion of the optimal age under 40, the post-80s generation has begun to become the main force of this demand, accompanied by strong fertility anxiety."
The ever-changing society gives us only one word "fast"! We have to hurry up and eat, go to work, have meetings, pick up children, etc. Now even having children requires a series of technological means to give this boost. If you think about it carefully, what people cannot accept and wait for is not speed, but the troubles and anxiety that speed brings to people.
Who has never been anxious about the whole process from pregnancy to delivery to the birth of the child? I have also been anxious. When I was anxious about the four-dimensional world, the doctor said that the child’s legs were short, why was the child not born yet at the due date, I was anxious about my work problems after the child was born, who would come to see the child and the child’s education problems, etc. How did I get through it? All of them have survived!
Poverty limits my imagination. The technology now has developed to make you no longer anxious:
The probability of conception increases, making the problem of conception no longer anxious
Whether it is work or childbirth, the opportunities and choices given to women are like thresholds. Not to mention giving birth and raising children, pregnancy is already very stressful to women. In addition, the relationship between physiological functions and various physical indicators is higher for every year. Families with economic conditions simply choose test tubes directly.
painless before delivery, reducing physiological anxiety
Of course, assisted reproduction in the news refers to IVF or artificial insemination and other operations, which greatly reduces women's mental anxiety, but as experienced people, anxiety is far more than psychological pressure, but also physiological pain. Many mothers who are waiting to give birth will choose painless because they are afraid of pain. If you can bear it, I still don’t recommend painless. Please believe that the body’s own physiological functions will make you consciously recover from postpartum and will not go astray. Painlessness will still have a certain impact on postpartum physical recovery, but this depends on your own condition.
That's it. Regarding the current population ratio, the country continues to introduce policies to encourage the three-fat. This society has more and more demands on women, and behind the anxiety is that they do not want to and dare not have children. what you think?
