In " Big Test ", the "sensible" Tian Wenwen was blamed by her mother. Her sister who only knows how to "cry" was very popular with her mother. A child who can cry really has milk, and no one cares for a sensible child. Tian Wenwen stopped pretending, "The word I hate the most is being sensible!"
Tian Wenwen was accused of being "independent" by her mother because she helped her father conceal the new crown . It was because she was sensible, but she was blamed by her mother if she was a little dissatisfied with her mother's wishes. Tian Wenwen explained to her mother that she was afraid that her mother would worry, so she didn't tell her, but she received a sentence of "distrust".
When my mother said this, she didn't think about it at all. She looked through Tian Wenwen's mobile phone privately and felt "trust". Instead, the mother said with confidence, "I am your mother, is there anything wrong?"
In the eyes of many people, everything mother does is right, because it is all "for your good", just like Wu Jiajun's mother, who ignores Wu Jiajun's own dreams at all. With a word "for your good", Wu Jiajun must be obedient, otherwise it will destroy Wu Jiajun's dream.
in education. Parents never know how to examine themselves and use their own values to imprison their children's future. Just like the mother murder case in " Bottom Line ", no one would have thought that a child who has always been sensible would kill his mother with his own hands, and this is a real case.
Although the "Big Test" mainly talks about the college entrance examination under the epidemic, it also alludes to the family's education issues. Tian Wenwen's parents made money in Wuhan. They left Tian Wenwen in their hometown since childhood and were taken care of by their grandmother. However, after her grandmother passed away, the girl who was only 18 years old had to live alone.
While going to school, you have to take care of yourself. Tian Wenwen must develop independent ability in order to live. She tried her best to convince herself that it was difficult to understand the difficulty of her parents and tried not to worry her parents. Even if there was a thief at home, Tian Wenwen was unwilling to tell her parents that such children were sensible in the eyes of their parents, and her mother even took it for granted that Tian Wenwen should be more sensible.
But they never thought that Tian Wenwen was still an 18-year-old girl. At such a big girl, who doesn’t love her family? Tian Wenwen’s sister has been with her parents since she was a child and can go to school in Wuhan. She has been spoiled. They are also daughters, one is forced to be independent and sensible, while the other is spoiled to grow up. Who has no complaints about this imbalance of love!
Such a sensible Tian Wenwen is disconnected from her in her mother's heart. Her mother blames Tian Wenwen for not being intimate with her. When Tian Wenwen vents the complaints in her heart, her mother not only does not feel any guilt, but instead feels that Tian Wenwen is not as sensible as before. On the other hand, the sister on the other side ran out and cried when she heard her sister's words. The mother left her sister without hesitation and comforted her. Sure enough, the child who can cry has milk.
There is a saying that no matter how many reasons Tian Wenwen's mother has, she is born without raising her, Tian Wenwen's parents are ashamed of Tian Wenwen. When she blames her daughter, she should think about her own problems carefully, instead of blame her daughter for her lack of love whenever she doesn't like her wishes. Even if she grows up, there will always be a part of her heart that is missing.
The few small families in "The Big Test" are like microcosm of educational problems. In addition to Tian Wenwen, Wu Jiajun's mother's special treatment, Zhou Bowen's father's ignorance, the parents of the rich second-generation Pan Xiaoxuan used money to perfunctory children, and the indifference and selfishness of the daughter of the Education Director, all parents seem to have forgotten how children should grow up healthily.
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