Today, a news hit a hot search. Ms. Li from Guangzhou bought fruit in the store. When she turned around, she found that her 4-year-old son cut the bananas on the stall into several pieces. The cut bananas could not be sold, so she immediately guided the child to apologize to the boss, and then bought all the cut bananas.
Mother said: Children must pay for their wrong behaviors for their wrong behaviors
I believe that in reality, parents respect their children's ideas, but we are in a dilemma, that is, when children do something annoying or have unreasonable requests, for example, begging parents to buy this and that, unable to complete their homework on time, overly obsessed with surfing the Internet and games, etc., what should we do? Why is dissuasion so powerless? Why do our earnest words become so pale in front of children?
In fact, education is to help children correct their shortcomings. If parents cannot restrain their children's misconduct and cannot bear to say "no" to their children, such education is education that gives up their responsibilities.
For example, some children often interrupt adults' conversations, raise their voices, and interject in others' clothes to attract other people's attention. If you often accommodate his behavior at home, he naturally would not have thought that there should be another set of behavioral rules outside. Therefore, when educating children, we should ensure that the rules of behavior between the family and society are consistent. Rejecting children's private foul behavior is actually helping them master unified "rules of the game" and improve their social adaptability.
is like a mother in the news, which seems to criticize children, but actually cultivates children's awareness of responsibility. We are responsible for our own affairs, and we hope our children can do this. Some children forget to bring their textbooks when they go to school, and are criticized by teachers at school. When they go home, they cry to their parents for putting their things randomly. They can't find them, or they wake up late in the morning and forget to bring them... Why don't they send them to school in time? In fact, parents should reject their children's request to shirk responsibility and let them try to bear the displeasure caused by being irresponsible to themselves.
It should be noted that in all these education processes, parents should be peaceful and rational. Scientific criticism and punishment will not only not hurt children's self-esteem, but will instead enhance parents' prestige in their children's hearts, but also make children understand more about life and life, which will be of great benefit to their growth.
