In the past few parents do not care about their children's academic performance, and their efforts in studying far exceed the efforts their parents use in work and life. But even so, what should I do if my child still doesn’t like to study? What if parents are unwilling to write one more word if they criticize or urge their children?
In fact, this is because children do not have a good understanding of learning in their hearts, so they have no motivation and no enterprising spirit to study hard.
In addition, parents' long-term irritable behaviors and harm to themselves will also lead to negative emotions in children. This emotion will lead to a decrease in the child's brain capacity, and natural memory, judgment, etc. will be affected. The key is that these are irreversible.
So, when parents don’t always say that the child cannot do it. If this continues, the child will really not do it. As for your urging, your supervision, and your force will make children more timid. They will go from simple to complex, and from focus to non-focus.
In short, parents must understand the developmental rules of their children, observe their behavioral characteristics more, and prescribe the right medicine. Of course, improving their children's internal motivation is the crucial point to solve their children's learning behavior.
The following methods can effectively stimulate children's ambition. Let children consciously put learning on the agenda.
1. Communicate with your child and find the reason why your child is not careful in studying
Why do children not focus on learning? They do not like to study because the questions are too difficult and can’t? Or are children lazy and don’t like to write? Or are there any other reasons?
Only when the problem reaches the crux of the problem can it help children solve the problem well and improve their learning initiative.
2. Set a small goal that is easier to accomplish with your children
If the child is not interested in learning for a long time, it may also be because of lack of self-confidence. Parents can completely help their children build confidence to improve their children's resistance to learning difficulties. For example, set a small goal for your child that is easy to accomplish. When the child is completed, set a big goal and supervise it. Assist the child to complete it.
3. Allow the child to do things he is interested in
For example, after school, you want to play for a while, but you stop it. Even if the child faces homework and study, he will be absent-minded. Therefore, letting children finish what they like and what they are interested in will help them focus and not be distracted when facing learning.
In fact, sports events, exercise finger flexibility, reading, etc. are all beneficial to children's brain development and more conducive to children's learning concentration.
Finally, the author wants to say that there is something about children's learning, and it is useless for parents to do it themselves. They also have to rely on their children's internal motivation. Without ambition and lack of awareness of learning, they can take learning seriously from the bottom of their hearts, and naturally they cannot concentrate on learning and cannot effectively improve their children's academic performance.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
