Some people say raising a boy is more tiring than raising a girl, and some people say raising a girl is more tiring than raising a boy. So which situation is correct? In fact, those who have raised children know that no matter whether they raise boys or girls, as long as they raise children, they are tired, so there is no gender at all. So, why is there such a difference in the difficulty of raising children?
If you want to know this problem, you must first understand the difference between raising a boy and raising a girl:
1. Boys and girls have different ways of thinking
Relatively speaking, girls have more gentle and delicate ways of thinking, while boys have more rough and large thinking. For example, if a little girl can calm down and listen to you tell stories, she can play house for a long time after playing house; while a little boy may be a destructive maniac when he was a child, and he can't stop for a moment, can't sit still, and likes cars, airplane models, etc.
2. Girls need a sense of security
Girls have stronger observation and recognition ability than boys, so they are more agile and need more security. The boy is relatively large, lively and active, and has a strong motivation, so he doesn't need much security.
3. Girls are emotional, boys are more rational
There is no difference between emotional and rational, but this is the case in terms of physical development. Although girls develop earlier than boys, spatial and visual perception develops later and have a poor sense of orientation; boys' logical thinking ability, especially spatial logical thinking ability, is generally stronger than girls.
4. Boys are more naughty
In childhood, boys are generally more naughty and more lively than girls. Moreover, boys are relatively more adventurous, and they prefer to use their bodies to explore or discover unknown things in life.
In the process of raising children, we understand the difference between raising boys and raising girls, and we must also learn to treat both parties in different educational methods.
The following points should be paid attention to with raising a boy:
1. Give him enough space for independent
The boy has formed an independent consciousness since he was two years old. Parents should consciously create independent space for him, understand him more, and not be too controlful and suppress him everywhere. This will make him develop a rebellious mentality and may even destroy his personality.
2. Understand his naughty
Boy is more lively and active and aggressive when he was a child or adolescence. As parents, you should understand that this is his characteristic, which is caused by the internal structure of the body and hormones. Don’t try to tame him into a regular boy, otherwise he may develop a character that is unintentional, timid and nervous.
: The following points should be paid attention to to raising girls:
1. Give girls a sense of security
Give girls a sense of security not only refers to the economic and material levels, but also to the spiritual level. Material abundance does not mean blindly spoiling and giving her a lot of wealth, but rather raising girls within the abilities of a family, allowing children to be knowledgeable and educated, and have their own requirements when choosing a partner. A sense of security is to raise a girl on a spiritual level, allowing her to read more books or learn some art, enrich her spiritual world, guide her to have a correct outlook on life, values, etc., be a person with a sound and rich spirit, and let her gain a true sense of security.
2. Girls cannot spoil
Many parents regard their daughters as babies. This is a good thing, but they are afraid that many things will spoil her. The girls educated in this way may not adapt to the social rules, because not everyone can give in to her after entering society. Long-term spoiling can easily lead to children not being able to understand others. Parents must know their responsibilities, and love is not indulgence.
