A child who is good at sharing will have unlimited life pattern. Today I saw Mark Twain once said a famous saying: "You can cook your own sadness; and if you want to fully experience the taste of joy, you must share it."
I thought of something that my son told me in the second semester last semester: My son said, "Mom, I found that I have become very bad and selfish recently."
"Oh, let me tell you, let me analyze it for you."
"It's just that in school, good books and learning materials are borrowed from classmates, but I just don't want to borrow people, especially those who are better than me.
Once, I just borrowed it from me in the evening of xx. I knew he hadn't finished reading it yet, but tomorrow morning I deliberately said that I would use it and would come back. The book contains the secrets of my learning."
I hurriedly asked, "Why don't you want to borrow people, and you don't lose anything?"
"I'm afraid that his grades will surpass me. He is my strongest opponent in the class... I know that it's not good to have such an idea, but I have such an idea! Mom, am I very bad? What should I do? I have read the "Ksitigarbha Sutra" several times recently and know that Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva makes a great vow to save all sentient beings. We must learn the spirit of Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. Now I don't even want to share the book with my classmates. Hehe, isn't that a little..."
"Yes, what secrets can you learn? You are a little selfish. Besides, good books and good things need to be shared and learned by classmates to have a taste. If you are afraid that their academic performance will surpass you, then work harder! Only with competitors will you be stressed, and only with pressure will you be motivated... But it is great to know mistakes to improve. Children, people are not afraid of making mistakes, and correcting them immediately is the best..."
"I know, the child thanks my mother for his teachings. Tomorrow, I will definitely give all the good books to the classmates with both hands, and sharing them together will make a taste of sharing them together." He grimacefully said.
This is right, people should be open-minded and open-minded. Only by knowing how to share can life be meaningful. Only when children share their happiness can they gain a true sense of happiness.
Li Meijin There was a lecture on "No matter how high the IQ of people who don't know how to share, it is useless." She proposed: Sharing is to let children understand that when you have happy things and good things, let people around you know and let everyone be happy with you.
In today's society, although some people don't have high IQ, they know how to share, have high EQ, and get along with people around them happily. They can also get a lot of resources and have many more opportunities.
Many children do not know how to share possessiveness from instinct, and think that their toys and items are their own and are not allowed to be used by others. If forced, not only will the child resist and cause him to feel frustrated, but it may not achieve the expected results. It is natural to create more opportunities for him to participate in social activities, and often play with other friends.
share is not loss, but win-win. In a seminar on finding blessings, 50 people signed up to participate. 50 people walked into a classroom filled with balloons and . The host made a very strange request. Give each person a balloon, asking everyone to write their own name with a pen on the balloon, then collect the balloons and put them in another room. Then everyone was taken to that room and asked each person to find the balloons with their names written on them, which was a limited time of 5 minutes. Everyone was looking for their own name frantically, and everyone collided and pushed, and the scene was in chaos!
5 minutes have passed, and no one here can find their own balloon within the specified time! The host shouted to stop! I asked everyone to find a balloon and hand it to the person with the name on it! In less than 3 minutes, everyone received their own balloons!
So the host pointed out ~ This is our life! Everyone is crazy looking for what they want, but no one knows where it is! Blessings actually depend on the people around you! Give others what they want, and you will get what you want. This is the meaning of life!
A life that knows how to share is easier to succeed. American psychologist Adam Grant once conducted a survey and research showing that those who fail the most and the most successful have one thing in common, that is, "love sharing".I remember a story about Professor Yu Minhong when he gave a speech at Peking University . His family is relatively wealthy. When he was in college, he would bring six apples with him every week when he returned from his home to school. The classmates in the dormitory thought that one for each person, but he ended up eating one for himself a day.
Apple is his, of course everyone can't grab it, but from then on he left an impression on everyone, that is, he was extremely selfish. Later, several of his classmates set up an entrepreneurial team, and he also wanted to join, but after everyone discussed it, they unanimously agreed that he could not join. The reason was very simple, because he never showed the spirit of sharing when he was in college.
Sharing not only represents a spirit, but also represents a recognition of others. Learning to share is not only giving, but also represents selflessness and dedication. It is precisely because of this selflessness and dedication that our world has become wider and better.
It is better to have fun alone than to have fun with everyone. Have you ever felt that when you encounter something very happy, exciting moments, no one can share the excitement with you, and you can't tell anyone about it. At this time, can you still feel happiness? Do you feel depressed? Knowing how to share with others is a great wisdom.
The ancients had long understood the principle of wealth gathering and people scattering and wealth gathering. Learning to share does not mean that they will lose anything. On the contrary, they will gain friendship, knowledge, and happiness. Smart people know how to use the opportunity to share good things with others and bring their relationships closer together, so they must respect and lay the foundation for a broader communication in the future. But stupid people often bring unexpected troubles to themselves when they enjoy their merits, honors, and happiness.
People who know how to share must have an open-minded mind, a calm attitude and profound wisdom and strategies. Only those who are hypocritical and treacherous will not share, because the demand for benefits makes them short-sighted, and those who are cautious do not know how to share. When we are willing to share the knowledge and happiness we have with others, we will not only not lose, but will gain greater joy and satisfaction.
Learn to share growth with others, success and wealth, and you will definitely become the happiest, happiest, most successful and richest person. Only those who truly understand how to share with others can understand the true meaning of life.
