Parents with children must have experienced it. You will never know what the "monkey" in your family will do in the seconds you don't keep an eye on.
For example: snag the head in the middle of the railing? "Draw" with your beloved lipstick? Swallow the little meatballs as a elixir?
Recently, a 4-year-old child in Guangzhou followed his mother to a fruit shop, and he turned over the banana from others, which made his mother very angry. Later, his mother's actions made the whole network angry.
Boy cuts bananas in the store. What this mother does, netizens have something to say that
The little boy in the story is only four years old. The child of this age is very curious and full of destructive power.
, who lives in Guangzhou, Ms. Li bought fruits in the store. When she was choosing fruits, she turned around and found that her 4-year-old son was using a knife on the table to scrape a bunch of bananas placed by the owner.
1 Several bananas were broken into several sections. It was a pity that she had affected her normal sales. She immediately guided her child to apologize to the boss, and then bought all the broken bananas and bought some other fruits, which was also considered an apology. After the incident of
was exposed, many netizens thought that this mother was just a few bananas? Children may just think it’s fun and there is no need to let their children make a fool of themselves in public. Even if they want to educate their children, they can wait until they get home and educate them slowly. This way of educating their children in public will make them very embarrassing.
Of course, this is just the view of a small number of netizens. Most netizens think that this parent’s view of education is very good and worthy of other parents. If all parents are the same as this parent, there will be many naughty children.
When a child is young, he is like a small tree. As long as the small tree grows upward from childhood, it will become a towering tree when it grows up. Parents' guidance is very important.
Educate "naughty children", these three points are crucial
Educate naughty children to guide and detour
Don't tell your children not to play or touch, you lock the ones that should be locked yourself, and fasten the lid. If you are hungry, thirsty, tired, sleepy, or bored, your children will easily lose their temper.
You need to explore the child's life rules and take appropriate measures, such as feeding the child, sleeping, and taking him to other places to play, so as not to fall into a trap that may lead to bad emotions. Such a small baby's attention moves very quickly, so you must make good use of it.
For example, if you take your child into a dining chair for dinner, and the child refuses to go in, you don’t have to insist. Take some carrot diced rice balls, etc. to coax him. When he is happy and in a good mood, carry him to the dining chair. When the child rolls around, he should not be an audience. Without the audience, the actors are boring.
When you are too tired, too sleepy, and too hungry, you will be as prone to lose your temper as your child. Just like treating your child, treat yourself kindly and give yourself enough electricity, and only then will you expect to enter the "bad mood zone".
Education of naughty children to remind people to be politely
Have extremely strong feelings for the child's mother. If something changes the mother in his eyes, he will show a particularly strong hatred for this matter.
Maybe he hates his mother wearing some jewelry, maybe she doesn't like changing hairstyles, or there is a special expression on her face telling him that she doesn't like him, he may particularly hate this expression. There is no doubt that adults should always cooperate with the rapid and fickleness of four-year-old children. Children like to expand outward, and sometimes they can't even stand it.
So, he still likes and respects those limited norms, but he doesn't always keep them in mind. You have to remind him often.
Parents should secretly pay attention to their children's behavior
Once you find good behavioral habits and praise them in time, children are now precocious. When communicating with their children, they should sincerely show enough respect and never think that they are a child. The behavior can be innocent, and the conversation must be lifelike. You can talk to the children in any tone when talking to people around you.
This way he can feel your respect and treat him as an adult, which can easily encourage the child to form a conscious and independent personality, that is, the "little adult" among good children. When the child imitates the behavior of adults, do not scare or stop it. You can also treat and evaluate it as the kindest adult in the family, which is more conducive to the child's psychological growth.
