In the new era, there is abundant supplies, and parents are poisoned by the idea of happy education in the Western European and American worlds, resulting in parents, grandparents, grandparents, etc. being overspoken to their children, fearing that they are hungry, hurt, bullied, etc.! Children cannot be beaten or scolded! Pampering is everywhere! This has led to many children being unable to bear setbacks and being extremely fragile inside!
So how can we make the child’s heart stronger?
In order to avoid the situation of children's inner fragility, parents must use the scientific family education method to educate their children!
First of all, don’t be superstitious about the Western happy education method. My years of educational research have found that happy education is just a Western policy of fooling the people! Not advisable! In family education, appropriate stick education is necessary. Touching your mouth alone is not enough to let the child understand the seriousness of the mistakes he has made! However, stick education must be well-founded before it can be convincing! It is also very serious to use sticks to educate them!
Secondly, parents set an example and pass on their good living habits to their children! For example, good habits such as reading, exercise, filial piety, diligence, etc., children like to imitate their parents. Parents can pass on these positive energy to their children, which can establish a relatively correct outlook on life for their children! It can also help children develop life self-care ability !
Third, appropriate setback training allows children to understand that failure is not scary, but fear of failure is scary. Many things, whether in life or study, allow children to try and complete independently, so that they can learn to summarize their experiences in failure! Let children's reverse quotient be fully trained!
I hope every child can grow up healthily and become a pillar of the world!
