Most parents hope that their children will be good, but many times, parents will also say the wrong things and do the wrong things in their emotions, and eventually hurt their children. It is recommended that parents set up a warning line in their hearts and tell themselves that no matter how their children are, they should adhere to the principle of "three" non-education!
1, do not insult or belittle your children
Research shows that children who have been belittled by their parents for a long time, even if they grow up to be capable adults, they will not dare to fight for it because they are not confident enough and miss many opportunities for growth. Belittle or insult the child will cause irreparable harm to the child's life. Parents are advised not to do this.
In addition, don’t criticize your children in front of outsiders. If the child makes a mistake, you can take it home. Criticizing the child outside will hurt the child’s self-esteem.
2. Don’t force your children to do things they don’t like to do
Every child has his own preferences and has completely different personalities. Don’t force your children to societe because other people’s children are doing something. As parents, we must recognize our children's personality, support our children's preferences, and allow them to develop in the fields they are good at. Cultivate creative children and benefit their children's lives endlessly.
3. Don’t quarrel in front of the child
It is normal for couples to have friction, but don’t quarrel in front of the child, and don’t force the child to stand in line. Many parents have said to their children, "If it weren't for you, I would have divorced long ago" and "If I divorced, you will be with your father or mother." This will have a very bad impact on the children. If a child cannot feel love in the family, he will grow into a person with indifferent family concepts and it will be difficult to establish a good relationship with others. There are three above
. Parents must not make mistakes in the process of educating their children! Parents who have made mistakes should reflect and correct them in time!
