People's emotions are prone to irrational behavior that goes against their true inner thoughts when they are affected by external stimuli.
This is the cliché saying: deal with your mood first, then deal with things.
In fact, this is exactly the manifestation of emotional management.
Emotional management: refers to the abnormal frequency of psychological fluctuations due to the existence of oneself or objective things, and the ability to achieve a peaceful and stable ideal result through self-regulation and management methods controlled by control.
is reflected in the education of parent-child relationships, and its importance is even more obvious.
Xiaoxi always loses her temper and throws things at any time, creating conflicts.
It is understood that her father is moody and when he is happy, the family looks peaceful. When something unpleasant, I complained all over the place at home, always using her and her mother to vent my anger.
It is precisely because of the emotional instability of Xiaoxi that her parents are extremely insecure, and she covers up the lack of inner strength by losing her temper and throwing things.
The same Xiaohao, although his family is average, is gentle and polite, orderly, and always is not impatient. He is deeply loved by teachers and classmates.
Through understanding, he found that his parents had never scolded him loudly and handled things calmly and peacefully, which allowed him to form a good behavior habit in a subtle way, which benefited a lot.
also shows that emotional fluctuations are controlled in a peaceful and natural stable state. Not only can parents express their true feelings and meanings clearly and accurately, but children can also make timely and accurately judge and make positive responses when receiving messages from their parents.
Parents are emotionally stable, and the influence they bring to their children is mainly reflected in several aspects.
【1】Get a sense of security
When parents are emotionally stable, family relationships will create a warm and harmonious atmosphere, which allows children's body and mind to be in a comfortable and relaxed state, satisfying one of the most basic wishes for environmental requirements deep in their hearts, relieving the fear of external risks, and thus forming a stable and safe characteristic.
【2】Menter-minded
Parents with stable emotions do not have out-of-control scenes of yelling, and will not bring a sense of trembling and tightness to their children, thus allowing their children's spiritual world to be fully nourished.
The abundant spiritual world has formed a positive and healthy virtuous cycle, allowing children to have soft and compassionate hearts in shaping their own personality, and have a soft and warm power in dealing with others.
【3】Be steady in doing things
Parents’ emotional stability is a demonstration of setting an example and an example that allows children to learn from and imitate.
Behind the emotional stability, it covers the inclusive elements of understanding and respect, so in dealing with people, one can be reasonable and think from the perspective of others.
Through the energy of learning from role models, children can be calm and calm in the performance of problem-solving ability in the process of growth.
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