Parents raise their children to adulthood and raise them to stand out in order to have a satisfactory job in the future. can maintain normal expenses for children, so that their children no longer need to run around for money in the second half of their lives.
Young people in the past were very motivated because at that time not every job had a pension. It was already very good for many people to use their meager income to maintain the life of a whole family, not to mention that they even paid their children to go to college. How much money would it cost to get such a result.
And these children also work very hard because they know that their family conditions are not good, and it is very difficult for their parents to support themselves in college.
After graduating from college, they will take their knowledge to big cities, choose a more promising career to develop, and send part of their monthly income to their parents at home, and will take their parents over to enjoy the happiness when they are successful and capable.
There is a kind of "new type of childbirth" that is popular. Parents also praise their children for their promising potential, which is even more sad than asking for money
But now this scene is rarely seen. If you don’t work hard and want your parents to support you, you will also want more and more "giant babies" to support you. This type of people is also called the " childbirth clan".
The phenomenon of "living parents" in my country is becoming more and more serious. According to surveys, 65% of families in my country have the phenomenon of living parents , and the number of more than half of the population is very heartbreaking. What are these people doing to enjoy the support of their parents?
There are also different types of leniency. According to the situation of leniency, it can be roughly divided into two situations. One is that you have a job, but the consumption level is very high . Your own income cannot meet the usual expenses, so you often ask your parents for money. The other one is that he has no income at all, and is lying at home and waiting for his parents to "feed" him to eat.
No matter what kind of childbirth it is, it makes people feel very disgusted. You have hands and feet and don’t know how to make money. It’s okay if you can’t guarantee your parents’ lives, but you also have to squeeze out all the remaining money on your parents.
Now with the progress of the times, even has emerged with new ways of hiding parents. This method is more despised than asking parents for money, and many elderly people are kept in the dark.
. A new way of geeking out of the way of taking the postgraduate entrance examination
The current social education is very important. In order to make students more development, parents will also sign up for their children to have many interest classes. What parents are most pleased with is that their children are interested in learning and want to improve their professional level.
Therefore, many college students choose to continue their postgraduate entrance examinations after graduation. Parents naturally hold a supportive attitude when they see their children have this mentality. After all, no one does not want to see their children develop better and better.
But what parents don’t know is that all this is is just an illusion created by children , which is deliberately letting parents see their positive side. Even if they fail to get ashore in one go, they are not discouraged. This is not because they have extra confidence in themselves, but because they don’t care about it at all.
I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination just their words to their parents. Their real reason is that they don’t want to enter society to work. I want to stay at home in this way and get financial assistance from their parents.
. throws your children to your parents for second-time leniency
This type of people have their own jobs, but they don’t care much about their children and parents. In order to save trouble, they will send their children directly to the elderly’s home and ask the elderly to help take care of them.
Some children with some conscience will give some living allowances to the elderly as living expenses for taking care of their children. There are also some people who don’t give a penny to , and the children’s expenses for the elderly are all borne by the elderly.
Originally, the elderly at this age no longer have a job, Life is based on the meager pension, and I usually save money and I am reluctant to spend money. This type of dependents throws their children directly to the elderly. The elderly will not take the initiative to ask for money from their children, but they are reluctant to bear their grandson's hardships, and will take out their pension to buy delicious food for their grandson.
And aren’t these behaviors a new type of behavior of surviving parents? This behavior is more despised than asking parents for money on the surface. Because these type of leniency people know how to disguise themselves. They want to leniency but do not want people to see that they are leniency, so they have to put a hat on themselves.
Summary: And this hat is like becoming their safe haven. They will not feel embarrassed about their behavior at all, and they even feel that their parents' efforts to them are a matter of course.
Topic today: What do you think of these dependents? Are there any other types of leniency people around you who use other types of leniency methods?
