, I am a programming magician, welcome to enjoy the space, share knowledge, and spread value. Today is Tuesday, September 6, 2022. The theme that I will share with you today is: mothers, in fact, you can not be so anxious.
. I found that many women are under great pressure after making mothers. They are always worried that they have not played a good mother's role. Under such anxiety, their lives and their relationships with their children have been badly affected.
is actually a mother, you don't have to be so strict for yourself. For the first time you have been a mother, it is inevitable that when you have sparse or mistakes, when you can let go of anxiety, enjoy the role of mother, and accompany your child with your heart, your child is more likely to feel your love. Below, my mother also has some suggestions.
is the first. You must know that as a mother, it is not blindly paid.
Mother's role does not mean self -sacrifice. Moms need to know that you are also an individual in the guts as a mother. You will have your own nature and have your own life. If you completely give up your life and dreams for your child, you will not only be tired, but also gradually lose your confidence. Do you want to see yourself like this?
When I was in college, I met a teacher. Although her child was still in kindergarten, while she was taught, she decided to apply for a PhD. It took 7 months to be admitted to a doctorate of a certain business University. These mothers who dare to put more time in their pursuit are no less love for their children than other mothers, and they can even become a good example for children. The child will grow up slowly, and he will perceive the world and form his own cognition and judgment. If the child feels the independence, self -confidence and strength of his parents, he will become confident. If the parents are always unconfident and escape, children will often become like this. Therefore, parents can lead by example, and more effective than telling more stories and truths.
is second. There is always an accident during the growth of children. Moms must learn to let go.
may be difficult for many parents. Because they have no way to withstand their children, they want children to grow under their eyes until they feel that children can get out of their sight. This is very, very normal and understandable. But when do you think children can get rid of your sight? Even if children are adults, life is inevitable to have some uncontrollable risks. Do you have to worry about being so worried?
We can do our best to make the child grow up controlled by our own efforts and strength, and then let go, but we cannot turn around the child and protect the child in an unpreparedness. If you are really not assured, you can teach your children to protect themselves. In this way, even if you really encounter bad situations, children have their own ability to respond. In the process of slowly letting go, you will slowly feel relaxed.
is third, letting the phrase "I am all for you" disappear from the family.
believes that many families have heard this. Some parents have regarded this sentence as a usual chat, and constantly emphasize their hard work and sacrifice with their children. They are all for children, but these words do not make children feel happy, but will make children carry pressure and feel guilty and pain. When the child feels tremendous pressure at home, he wants to escape and want to leave you. I don't think you want to pay hard, but finally push the child further.
So, mothers should find their own happiness and happiness, and pass on this happiness and happiness to the child in the subtle way. In this way, you are happy and your child is happy. Your relationship will be closer.
is OK, this is the end of today's sharing. If you have any ideas for today's sharing, please leave a message below to tell me. We see you next time.
