Whether a child is spoiled or not is difficult to define. It can be determined that the child has the following 6 personality traits when he grows up:
1. A spoiled child cannot accept criticism when he grows up;
2. Spoiled children, when they grow up, they are more dependent, dependent on their parents, and dependent on others;
3. Spoiled children, who cannot live independently after they grow up, have big problems with self-care;
4. Spoiled children, when they grow up, they are easy to give up;
Strict fathers give out filial sons, and loving mothers often lose children. Beware of the ten characteristics of spoiled children:
1. When you are angry, you can exchange terms before letting go.
2. There are many things in life that require help from others.
3. I don’t know how to score, I don’t know where to look, and it’s not big or small.
4. If you don't have 3C, you won't be obedient.
5. If you don’t like it, hit people, beat your grandparents, and even beat your parents. I dare not dare at school, but dare at home.
6. He doesn't admit his mistakes and loves to argue, it's not his fault.
7. Very picky, others should follow him in everything.
8. Very self, regardless of other people in the group.
9. She shirks responsibility and is passive.
10. I don’t understand gratitude, I don’t understand gratitude, and I am very dissatisfied.
Observe whether the child has these behaviors. If there is, mom and dad don’t know how to deal with it. As time passes, the child’s personality will be formed. What should parents do?
1. Don’t take your child’s opinion as an opinion. A child over the age of three wants to eat a lot and wants a lot of toys. He wants to train the child to be a family unit. Can you give it to me? Can you wait until I finish my work? The watershed is when I am over three years old. He will discover the causal relationship, and if the education is centered on him, he will discover and use it.
2. Don’t help your child to do things that he can do on his own. Let him do it independently, otherwise he will find that as long as he cries, it will be enough. He must do what he can do at that age. Mom and dad can't let him do it by themselves, and they have to discuss with him. Don't help right away. It is democratic education and the beginning of training independence. Only when parents change, will children change.
3. What the child cannot do, must tell him seriously. For example, you must be serious about beating your parents and grandparents, and you must not do it seriously. Let the children admit their mistakes.
4. Let the child develop the habit of saying thank you, he will say thank you, it is the beginning of his cherishment and the beginning of knowing how to be grateful.
5. Don’t have children. Don’t easily reach the goal. For example, if children want to buy battle tops, puzzles, etc., they must save money to buy, or if you buy this, you can’t buy another thing. , Or it will take a long time to buy once. The child littering is related to his easy access.
6. Do something responsible for the child. Find him responsible for things. If your child is 3 years old, then there are things he can be responsible for when he is 3 years old; if he is 6 years old, there are things he can be responsible for when he is 6 years old, and if he goes to elementary school, there are things he can be responsible for.
looks simple, can grasp the details, the child will change a little.
