Wen | Wen'er When pregnant mothers are pregnant, they all fantasize about what the child will look like after birth, whether it will look more like the mother or the father. It is best to inherit the advantages of the parents. Especially many good-looking mothers hope that their

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When pregnant mothers are pregnant, they all fantasize about what the child will look like after birth, whether it will look more like the mother or the father. It is best to inherit the advantages of the parents. Especially many good-looking mothers hope that their children will look more like themselves in the future. In this way, the mother will feel happier.

However, after their children are born, many mothers find that most of their children look like their fathers, and some even inherit across generations, looking like their grandparents, but not like themselves. What's even worse is that they all inherit the shortcomings of their father and grandparents when they grow up. Heredity is really a metaphysics, and having children is like opening a blind box. So from a genetic perspective, who is to blame for having an ugly child? The answer left my mother helpless.

From a genetic perspective, a child’s appearance is more likely to be affected by his father’s chromosomes. The probability of a child inheriting his father’s appearance is 60%.

From a genetics perspective, a child’s appearance is more likely to be affected by his father’s chromosomes. The child’s genetic inheritance He inherits about 60% of his father's appearance and about 40% of his mother's appearance.

So in life you will find that most children are more like their fathers. Especially the nose, eyes, and face shape are mostly like my father's. It can also be said that the nose, eyes, and face shape all belong to the father’s genes, which are relatively strong and are often passed on to his children with an overwhelming advantage. The skin color is the average of the parents, that is, no matter how fair the mother is, as long as the father is dark, it will be difficult for the child to inherit a skin color like the mother.

What is even more frightening is the inheritance from one generation to the next.

In life, some children neither look like their father nor look like him, but they have inheritance from one generation to the next. And most of them look like grandma, which is even more frustrating. For example, Bao Bell ’s daughter’s dumplings are carved from the same mold as her grandma’s.

There are not many people who inherit dumplings like this in life. It would be fine if grandma has better appearance genes and looks good-looking. It would be even worse if the grandma is not good-looking and the appearance of the father and mother is not bad, but the child inherits it from the grandparents.

In addition to innate genes, the genetic factors of acquired environment are also very important.

Why do couples become more and more like husband and wife after living together for a long time? Because two people live together for a long time, their living habits, work and rest habits, and even emotional habits All tend to be consistent. Moreover, both husband and wife are good at imitating each other, resulting in more and more similar movements, expressions and temperaments. This is what people call the appearance of husband and wife.

The same is true for the child's appearance. Although a child's appearance is determined by innate genes, the influence of acquired environment is also not small. If the child lives in a relatively wealthy family with loving parents and a good living atmosphere. There is no shortage of nutrients since childhood, and there are not too many material worries. Coupled with the good family environment created by the parents, the children are in a happy spirit. This kind of child looks very bright and confident at first glance, and his appearance is not much different. Therefore, a person's growth environment and living environment may constitute a person's acquired appearance genes. This is what is called appearance arising from the mind.

Therefore, if you want your children to have good looks in the future, at least your husband’s looks should not be too bad. After marriage, you should manage your relationship well and create a good family environment for your children.

[Topic discussion: Who does your child look more like? 】

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