Hello everyone! I am Little Fat Fish Grandma. Today I saw several young parents leading their children to fold lotus flowers in the park. Should my wife and I care or not? Is this how adults educate and influence children? Now let me tell you a story about folding flowers.
A few years ago, my daughter-in-law fell ill, and our son only told us the day before the operation. My wife quickly booked a flight for me and came to her hospital bed. My daughter-in-law greeted me with a wry smile, and my son was by her side. Also going to the hospital to visit my daughter-in-law were her father, mother, and my grandson Xiao Pangyu.
My daughter-in-law told me that on the second day of the operation, Little Fat Fish came to visit her mother. Walking into the ward, I threw myself in front of her bed and said, "Mom, I miss you so much!" Seeing the IV drip and the painful expression on my face, I hurriedly said, "Mom, I feel so sorry for you!" In an instant, tears fell from my eyes. It flowed down, and my little face was pressed against my mother's body. My daughter-in-law said that I really didn’t expect that Xiao Pangyu could be so sensible at such a young age!
After a while, the doctor came to treat my daughter-in-law's wounds and change her dressing, interrupting our conversation.
Little Fat Fish also came to me. I don’t know when he was holding a lotus-colored flower in his hand. I asked him where he picked the flower from, but he didn’t say anything. Grandma also blamed him for picking flowers from the flower pond. I said that the flowers in the flower pond are public goods. They are planted and raised by workers with hard work, and they are used to decorate the beautiful environment for everyone to enjoy and watch. We must take care of them. Besides, if the property management staff sees you folding flowers, they will criticize you or fine you. The little fat fish lowered his head and hid the flower behind his back without saying a word.
The doctor left, the curtain was opened, and the little fat fish hurried to his mother's bed and presented the flowers to her mother. Only then did we suddenly realize what a caring child he was! At this time, the little fat fish had just turned five years old. !
But if the child breaks the flowers in the flower pond, we still have to criticize and educate him. Children's education is a long-term matter. Every word and deed of parents has a subtle impact on children.
In the park to the east of my community, there are large lotus ponds. Today, our community has been completely unblocked, all checkpoints have been removed, and some closed road sections have been opened, allowing traffic to flow smoothly. My wife and I walked slowly along the east road of the community, wanting to take a look. It was getting late, and there was a couple dancing at the entrance of the park. We admired it for a while, and then followed the winding sidewalk to the small bridge. There were lotus ponds on both sides of the bridge. The lotus leaves are big and fat, like inverted umbrellas, crowded with each other, making a rustling and rubbing sound in the breeze. If you look carefully, you can see that the pale pink flower buds, large and small, penetrate the leaves very high, which is very eye-catching. My wife said that the lotus flowers grew better this year than last year, maybe because of the epidemic and because no one came to disturb them. Seeing Xiaohe showing her sharp horns, my wife and I became more excited about playing. At this time, I saw a pair of people on the left side of the bridge, who looked like lovers or husband and wife, picking flower bones from the lotus pond. The man went into the shallow water to pick the flowers and handed them to the woman's hand. I grabbed a handful of lotus bones. Hi! I really feel sorry for those lotus bones. They grow well in the pond, but why are they picked and broken off? It will be in full bloom in a few days for people to enjoy! I stared hard at them with my eyes. They saw someone coming, stood there watching them, and then slipped away embarrassedly. At this time, I heard the sound of splashing in the lotus pond on the right side of the bridge. If I looked carefully, I saw someone picking and breaking lotus bones. It was a mother leading two children. I felt sad in my heart. Why did the mother bring her children? Come and pick the lotus bones? This is the lotus pond in the park, not your back garden. It is for tourists to enjoy. Don’t you, a mother, understand this too? Is this how you educate your children and influence them? I picked up my phone and took a few photos. They noticed it and came over to see my phone. They said they have image rights and you can't publish them casually. My wife wanted to argue with them, but I stopped them and they quickly walked away after seeing it. Looking far away, there are also some parents and children folding flowers there.
I remember that when we were young, we took ideological and moral classes at school, which taught us to protect public property and not to break flowers or step on grass. Don’t these parents understand the basic rules? It's understandable that the child is young. You are such a grown-up person and a parent. What don't you understand? Are you knowingly committing the crime? Don't you take this seriously? We often say that parents are children’s first teachers. Every word, deed, and action of parents is a role model for their children. The power of role models is infinite! Parents' attitudes towards life and things are also important for children to imitate. In a sense, your flower-folding behavior today has had a very bad impact on your children! The cultivation of children depends on our words and deeds as parents. A child is a young seedling. How you educate him will determine what kind of person he will be in the future!
Inside and outside our community, there are different seas of colorful flowers in different seasons. We often see some children running inside to pick flowers in large quantities, and parents don't care. The residents looked at them with fire in their eyes, and they didn't mind either. I really don’t know what these parents are thinking. These children picked the flowers, played with them for a while and then threw them away. What a pity, but they didn't take them seriously at all. Of course, there are not many such children. There are still many children who appreciate and care for flowers. Parents repeatedly tell their children not to pick flowers. Another example is when we go to the supermarket to buy groceries and queue up. Some people with children have to jump in line. I can accept this. But some people said that she jumped in line every time, and everyone was disgusted. Once she jumped in line again while holding a two or three-year-old child. Others accused her, but she seemed indifferent. Isn't this a bad influence on the children? Woolen cloth? You always want to disobey the rules and take advantage of others. What will it be like when your children grow up? Nowadays, some people in society behave illegally and disorderly. Is it related to the influence of their parents when they were young? Do you agree with my point of view? Welcome to tell us in the comment area!
