We just ask boys to do what they want, which is not possible. The nutrition of growing up with men is: "run together, play ball together, get up when you fall, don't cry when injured, love the weak, and so on," it is not just preaching. Cultivated.
In fact, there is no harm in raising children to be honest people. Being honest does not mean that they have no personality or temper. Isn't there an old saying: "You can't mess with an honest person, and it's terrible when an honest person loses his temper."
Parents are tour guides and guides. Human nature is inherently evil, and it makes sense. Therefore, what parents need to do is to be firm and gentle, not to blindly suppress the evil nature, but to guide their children to be kind in the face of kindness, and to be able to face evil. Be brave enough to say no and don’t make unnecessary compromises. This degree of control is the golden mean.
