Stop giving material rewards to your children. Spiritual rewards are king. When your children perform well, how do you usually reward them? If you score 100 points on the exam, I will buy you a toy! After you finish your homework, I’ll let you watch TV! !

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Stop giving material rewards to your children. Spiritual rewards are king. When children perform well, how do you usually reward them?

If you score 100 points on the exam, I will buy you a toy! After you finish your homework, I’ll let you watch TV! !

Rewards like this may seem effective in a short period of time, but as time goes by, the child's desire will continue to amplify. The purpose of the child's actions or performance is only to get material rewards, and he is interested in the prize itself. Gradually, such rewards will become more and more effective. If children lose their self-motivation and , it will be difficult for them to make progress.

If you want to cultivate active and self-conscious children, spiritual rewards are more useful than material rewards. Parents, please accept this list of rewards:

1. For rewards, children can choose to play the roles of Dad and Mom (to experience a sense of authority)

2. Rewards Let the children decide what to eat for three meals a day

(enjoy the right to decide)

3. Reward the children for deciding how to spend the weekend

(enjoy the right to freely control their time)

4. Reward the children for going to bed one hour later

(enjoying twice the entertainment time) Happy)

5. Reward the children by putting makeup on Daddy or Mommy

(enjoy a different parent-child time)

6. Reward the children by watching a movie or drama

(improve the children's aesthetic ability )

7. Reward the children and friends Play for 1 hour more

(enjoy the happiness of doubled entertainment time)

8. Reward the child to realize a small wish

(enjoy the achievements and happiness brought by hard work)

9. Reward the child to decide who will do the housework today

(experience the rewards due to hard work) special rights)

10. Reward children for naming pets at home

(cultivate creativity)

11. Reward children for inviting friends to the house as guests

(enjoy the rights gained due to personal efforts)

12. Grant children the right to be a "family helper" Title

(cultivate children's sense of honor)

13. Reward children for being allowed to use a tool they have never used before

(gain more experience)

14. Reward children for being able to enjoy the food in the refrigerator at any time

(enjoy the food obtained for hard work) )

15. Reward the child to choose a cartoon he likes, and invite the whole family to watch it together (enjoy the joy of independent choice)

When rewarding a child, you must let the child know that it is not just an affirmation of the results of his work, but more importantly It is to appreciate his attitude, ability, method or progress in doing things, and to encourage him to do better in the future. This kind of spiritual reward for the child will affect the child's life and benefit him throughout his life.

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