Educating children is not an easy task, especially for some naughty boys. When they start to be sensible but are not really "sensible" yet, they often make their parents angry to death, and they are often disobedient. Even if you don’t like reading and doing homework, there are few things that can make your parents worry less.
Recently, a mother in Yiwu, Zhejiang shared a video that made people feel helpless. In the video, in order to punish her disobedient son, who was in first grade, the mother made him go out to pick up scraps under the scorching sun. While the boy was rummaging through the trash can, his mother was educating him, saying that his life was too easy and she even asked her son to sleep in the park at night.
After being taught by his mother, the boy did not dare to refute. He could only wipe his tears and pick up waste products from the trash can one after another. The mother said that her son was quite playful. She helped her son with his homework that day, but he was still procrastinating, so she got angry and punished her son by picking up scraps for an hour to let him know that making money is not easy and he must study hard.
Netizens also commented on this:
"This method is OK for some children, but for my son who failed, he didn't study hard. His father took him to the construction site for a day, and he was so tired that he cried. The next day, he was asked to do it again. Go."
"Sometimes there is no way for a child to be naughty. This mother uses this method to punish her. I don't know whether it is good or bad. I hope the child can understand her mother's good intentions. "
" I took my child to set up a street stall. It’s not easy to experience making money, but when people saw that she was so young and so sensible, she took care of her business and made more than 200 yuan, so she was reluctant to go home! ”
What I have to say is that this mother has good intentions and is very kind to her. Warning children also plays a role. But if you want to make your children fundamentally change, threats and punishments once or twice will not be effective. This requires parents to persevere in setting an example and being good at teaching. Of course, the specific method of education requires each parent to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.
What do you think?
