When I took my 4-year-old daughter to play on the slide in the community, my daughter and several other little girls of the same age were having fun. Suddenly, several older boys swarmed over and wanted to jump in line to play on the slide.

Hello everyone, I am Amy’s mother~

When I was taking my 4-year-old daughter to play on the slide in the community, my daughter and several little girls of the same age were having fun. Suddenly, several older boys swarmed over and wanted to jump in line. Play on the slide.

There was even a little boy pushing the neighbor's daughter Rui Rui. Rui Rui was so frightened that she started crying. When my neighbor and I saw this, we planned to go forward to help. At this time, we saw my daughter standing in front of Rui Rui and protecting her. Stop her and start arguing with the little boy..

My daughter said, neither humble nor arrogant: "You are so old, why are you so uncivilized? You have to line up to play, don't you know?" My daughter's words made several boys stunned. Maybe they didn't expect that their daughter, who was so young, would give her so confidently. They make sense.

Immediately afterwards, my daughter continued: "Are you like this in kindergarten? I know which class you are in. Believe it or not, I will tell your teacher?" My daughter quietly told me that she had seen these little boys and they were also In kindergarten, they are most afraid of their teachers.

After hearing this, the little boys immediately felt at ease, and then went to the back to line up in despair. After seeing this scene, Ruirui's mother sighed: "My Ruirui is timid outside and is always bullied. How do you educate your children?"

The neighbor's daughter Ruirui is the same age as my daughter, and she is also in kindergarten. We are classmates and have a very good relationship. Every time we play together in the community, my daughter always protects Ruirui. My daughter is said to be quiet, but not panicked when things happen. She is bold and careful and is rarely bullied.

Later, I told Ruirui’s mother that since before my daughter entered kindergarten at the age of 3, I have attached great importance to cultivating her daughter to have some “untouchable” qualities, because I was also worried about her being bullied after entering kindergarten, and worried about my daughter being bullied outside and outside. Children were bullied while playing together.

Because of this, my daughter will develop the ability to not panic or be afraid when things happen. She will immediately stand up and argue when something is unfair, and she will be able to grasp the key points and win with one blow.

The most important thing is that my daughter has become very strong internally. Even if she encounters children who exclude her when playing together, she can easily resolve it and quickly play with them.

All of these are due to my self-protection and anti-bullying education for my daughter. I read her a lot of picture books on anti-bullying education. Among them, I focused on cultivating the child "untouchable" qualities .

① Neither humble nor arrogant, have a sense of boundaries, stick to principles, and never give in.

I have told my daughter since she was a child that no matter when your parents are not around you, you must learn to protect yourself. If a child bullies you, you must let go as soon as possible. They know that you are not someone to be bullied.

My purpose in doing this is not to make my daughter a strong person in every aspect, but if someone’s behavior makes her feel uncomfortable, she should argue with reason, use her brain, and grasp the other person’s weaknesses without being intimidated. And threats, certain cannot compromise .

In addition, you must be good at seeking help from the outside world. In short, you must not put yourself in danger or bullying. If someone bullies you, you must use words and actions to tell the other person that you are not easy to bully, and fight back in your own way to let others bully you. The other party knows your principles and bottom line.

The purpose of doing this is actually based on the psychology of children, because once the other party feels that you are not easy to mess with, they will become timid inside. If the arrogance is not there at the beginning, they will stay away. Next time they meet, they will weigh it. try not to provoke you .

② Let children know that their parents are their strongest backing

We want children to know that their parents are their strongest backing at any time. If they are bullied outside and cannot handle it on their own, they can just tell the teacher at school. If it doesn't work, just tell your parents and they will definitely help them.

In this way, children will become more confident when they encounter problems outside, because they know that their parents will help them no matter what.

③ Provide anti-bullying and self-protection education to children from an early age, so that children know how to fight back

When children enter kindergarten at the age of 3, they take the first step in society. Before that, children should know how to protect themselves and enter This is especially true after elementary school.

As parents, we should let our children know what behaviors are bullying and bullying. It is not bullying that involves getting physical or getting hurt.

However, parents only use words to say this to their children, and children cannot understand . Instead, they must use picture books that children can understand and explain the truth to them, so that children can understand the essence and learn. For use.

After that, I recommended to Ruirui’s mother a set of my daughter’s favorite “Children’s Anti-Bullying Education Picture Book”. Some of my daughter’s “not easy to mess with” traits and some anti-bullying methods are all in this set. Learned from picture books.

I carefully selected this set of anti-bullying picture books from many sets of similar picture books. I looked through them all and found that this set of picture books is really suitable for children's cognitive psychology and easier to read. Children embrace learning.

First of all, this set of "Children's Anti-Bullying Education Picture Books" will teach children to recognize what behaviors of the other party are bullying apart from physical bullying.

For example, those who deliberately break their own things, give themselves nicknames, and use insulting language are all bullying behaviors.

Therefore, parents should let their children know that bullying and bullying include physical bullying, social bullying, such as being excluded and encouraged, verbal bullying, etc.

In addition, this set of anti-bullying picture books uses some children's life and learning scenes to teach children how to fight back and protect themselves when they encounter bullying.

This set of picture books is using language that children can understand and pictures and scenes that can understand. It guides children according to their cognitive and psychological characteristics and uses some short stories to let children know what they are facing. In different situations, how should you fight back and how should you protect yourself?

This set of picture books is very suitable for parent-child reading. When I read this set of picture books with my daughter, I often conduct some scenario exercises based on the short stories in it. My daughter likes this format very much, and also likes the short stories and characters in it.

The language of this set of "Children's Anti-Bullying Education Picture Books" is vivid and interesting , which is very suitable for children's reading characteristics. The various scenes in it are very attractive to children.

In order to make children's reading experience better, the picture books are all hand-drawn illustrations, large cross-page pictures, bright colors , and the characters are vivid and cute, full of childishness .

makes it easier for children to integrate into the story during reading, allowing them to transform themselves into the protagonist in the story, experience, experience, and recognize.

This set of "Children's Anti-Bullying Education Picture Books" contains 8 volumes in total, suitable for children aged 2-8 years . It is written by senior early childhood education experts. contains 8 different themes: physical bullying, social bullying, Verbal bullying, financial bullying, invisible bullying, etc.

When a child enters kindergarten and takes the first step away from his parents, parents will worry that the child will not be bullied outside, and worry that the child will be bullied and will compromise and dare not say anything. Thinking about it makes people feel distressed.

This set of children’s anti-bullying education authentic picture books, a set of 8 books, only costs 59 yuan in total, and each book is only 7 yuan. is a great deal for cultivating children’s “untouchable” qualities in parent-child reading. .

If you want to be like me, start cultivating children's "untouchable" traits from an early age so that children can understand self-protection and how to fight against bullying from an early age. You can open the link below and prepare a set for your children as soon as possible.

As parents, we must start cultivating the characteristics of children that they cannot afford to offend when they are around 2 years old, so that children can learn some self-protection methods, be neither humble nor overbearing when encountering things, handle things by themselves without panic, and stay away from bullying, so that parents can rest assured. To let go.