I was shocked when I saw such a passage today. Because I often do this, the father of my child also pointed out this problem to me before. This passage says:
Parents yelling at their children will easily affect the child's IQ, and it will also affect the child's personality. This is called the Mimosa phenomenon. Yelling is the biggest form of verbal violence. For children who have been exposed to such verbal violence for a long time, their entire synapses and their entire nervous system will shrink or even atrophy. It's as if his entire neurological state has withered like a flower. How can his psychological growth and development come about? Such a child's personality will be affected. We must not use verbal violence.
Such a passage scared me so much that I hurriedly checked various information to find out whether this is the case? Because in life, I am a stay-at-home mother, taking care of two children by myself. I have no friends, no self, and a lot of pressure in life. I am also a bit irritable, so I often yell at my children at home. My second child is also a bit timid, I don’t know if it’s me! My child’s father also told me about this problem, saying that this was not good for the child and would make him have a pleaser personality. I didn’t believe it at the time. I said that most mothers are like this. It’s not like fathers who come back from get off work to entertain their children. After playing for a while, you will feel that your children are cute. They are not watching the children 24 hours a day. Mothers have to do all kinds of housework, take the eldest son to school, buy groceries and cook, and do everything. They don’t have so much patience. Treat children gently. Is there any mother with the same style?
After reading the paragraph at the beginning of the article, I was really scared, and then I watched many videos and articles on my mobile phone. Yelling at children is indeed very harmful. For example, parents who often yell at their children can easily lead to low self-esteem, autism, , and rebellion. It may have an impact on the child's psychology, and may even cause the child to have a bad temper, be irritable, and have violent tendencies. What's more serious is that children who have been exposed to verbal violence from their parents for a long time will have their memory decreased, their brains underdeveloped, and their IQ affected.
When you see this, do you feel that the consequences are very serious? Just realize the seriousness of the problem. Knowing the harm of yelling at children, we will work hard to correct it. Since we gave birth to him, everyone wants their children to grow up healthily both physically and mentally, so don’t let our inappropriate behaviors affect their children’s lives!
Do you have parents who supervise each other and make corrections together? Let's do it together!
