Even though my eldest daughter is in second grade, she still often cries at home. Sometimes she cries when she doesn’t agree with her. She cries when she doesn’t get what she wants. For example, she wanted the ice cream she wanted yesterday. For example, she wants your understanding to be the same as hers. ......
Many times we were forced by her cries and satisfied her with humiliation. So, this fueled her crying habit.
At this time, we often say: "Why are you crying? Why are you crying? In fact, as parents, we know the reason but still ask this, which is meaningless. Children crying is just expressing emotions, we have to ask why we should express this Emotions? It means nothing, just like you shed tears on some occasion and others ask you why you are sad, it’s the same thing.
Emotions are inherent in everyone. When children cry and make fuss, we feel at a loss. Because we are affected by other people's bad emotions. Even if the emotion is negative, it belongs to the person venting it. So there is no need to react too much to the emotions released by others.
Therefore, if a child uses crying to vent his emotions, you can Tell him: Cry, it’s okay, wait until you finish crying. They should be calmer later.
