Children, please speak well to your parents.
Every Sunday, loud yelling comes from upstairs from time to time. I know that my son Xiaowei upstairs is back.
Talking about the neighbor’s only son Xiaowei. After graduating from college, I worked in a company. He is 1.8 meters tall, handsome and sunny. Very friendly and polite to the neighbors.
Xiaowei was born in a working-class family. My mother is a teacher and my father is a doctor. The two couples spoke politely and politely outside.
Why do two generations that look good to outsiders often collide and quarrel together?
Xiaowei is an only son. His parents doted on him since he was a child. Never let him do housework. As long as Xiaowei's request is made, his parents will try their best to satisfy it.
When his parents asked about his work and love issues this Sunday, Xiaowei was very impatient and said that his parents didn't understand anything. When his parents said that, he yelled loudly. His father was very angry and slapped Xiaowei in the face.
Xiaowei was angry and didn’t go home for a long time. My parents don’t answer calls or text messages.
I want to say, Xiaowei, your parents raised you so that you can receive the best education. You are already working and serving society. Why can't you speak nicely to your parents?
The kindness of parents in giving birth is greater than the revenge of a slap in the face. Tolerating parents' minor faults and forgiving their imperfections is the best quality of children.
It is not easy for Chinese parents today. They raise their children and send them to school. They always try every means to buy a house for their children when they grow up.
There is no poetry and distance in life, it is just stepping on the shoulders of parents. For the sake of their children, no matter how weak they are, parents will fight against life in the name of a father or mother. In order to provide the best protection for children's study and life. They have been talking down to the world.
Even if parents risk their lives to protect their children, they will be willing to do so. If parents need to give an example, they will not choose to stand.
During the 5.12 Wenchuan earthquake, there was such a great mother. In order to save her infant child, she used her fragile body to resist the collapsed house and gave her precious life. When the rescuers took the child out, he was still sleeping peacefully.
There are no quiet moments in this world. Your parents are helping you to live a carefree life. They gritted their teeth and held on silently. As children, we must understand the suffering of our parents, understand their difficulties, and understand their imperfections.
Why can we speak well when dealing with others outside? And when he returned home and spoke to his parents, he seemed so domineering and impatient!
Because you know subconsciously:
If you say something wrong in front of outsiders, they will not forgive you. As for your own parents, no matter what you do wrong, the parent-child relationship will always be there. Our parents have always forgiven us.
But do you know: If you don’t speak well, it will make them very sad.
As children, you should remember: When your parents are alive, you should love them well. Cherish the good times you have together and don’t wait until they are gone. Only then do you know how to cherish. That kind of feeling of "the child wants to be taken care of but cannot be cared for" is very painful.
This encounter between parents and children is used to love each other.
So, kids, please talk to your parents!
