My child has severe procrastination, and he has to rush to do everything. Every day I am really anxious and stamp my feet.
I am a mother of two children. My elder sister is in elementary school this year, and my younger brother is in kindergarten. The protagonist today is my little sister. When I talk about my sister, I get a headache... A bowl of rice can last for an hour. I want her to take a shower, or she won't go in, or she won't come out after she goes in... She can play in it for half a day. When I was young, I didn’t urge her to do homework. There was only one thing I didn’t urge her to do. Guess what it was? I guess many parents can guess that, yes, you don’t have to rush to watch TV [cover your face].
If I am wrong, please don't punish me like this...
Sister, apart from being slow, is actually very obedient most of the time. She would still complete the one-page math oral exercise I arranged for her at noon every day on time, but only after my repeated urging.
Every time, her procrastination makes me furious. After getting angry, I feel very guilty and look at her pitiful little face.
Hey! I'm so confused...
How do you deal with situations like this? Like me too?