"Every time I yelled at the , I regretted it. I was thinking, I was almost 30 years old, and sometimes I was not sensible. How could I ask a 2-year-old child to be "more sensible" than me?"
This is the original sentence my colleague said to me today.
Have you ever gotten angry with your child?
Almost all parents or elders around them have gotten angry with their children and they are very frequent.
Why is it that you lose your temper with your child?
answers to this question are diverse. Children refuse to eat, work hard, do not take a shower, sleep well, do not do their homework well, and do it naughtyly...
seems to be trivial, but they are indeed reasons for adults to lose their temper. There are too many situations like this. Maybe this is you, or the people around you, or even me, as parents and elders, everyone will have such a time.
I believe many people have been confused for a long time, especially as parents of children, who often cannot control their emotions, get angry and get crazy, and regret it after the end.
Regarding losing temper with children, some parents think this is normal, and they see that many around them are like this; while some parents regret it after losing their temper, and they don’t want to always lose their temper with their children, just can’t control them.
Adults always think that their children are ignorant and think it doesn’t matter if they scold them a few times. However, the words and actions of parents in actually have a great impact on children. We can take a look at through a picture.
In the TV series " Ode to Joy ", Fan Shengmei once said helplessly:
"A person's family is a fate that cannot be changed."
The impact of the original family on a person's personality and life will accompany you throughout your life, just like genetic gene . If you are careful, you will find that sometimes adults have a temper and children have a temper.
So we must strive to create a good family environment for our children and let them grow up healthily and happily.
We are all trying to play the role of good parents, but we may not be really excellent parents;
Similarly, most children are also trying to become better selves, but they may not be able to really excel in a short period of time.
Give yourself some space and give your children some time to work hard and improve. I believe that the child will get better.
