Since the last time the video of saying sorry to my mother because of her slow wearing of clothes went viral, Chongqing's 5-year-old cerebral palsy girl Zhang Doudou has attracted the attention of many netizens.
Due to 's premature delivery and unsuccessful delivery and other factors, Doudou suffered a motor nerve injury due to hypoxia and ischemia at birth, and was diagnosed as a cerebral palsy patient by the doctor. Over the years, she has been following her family for rehabilitation in Chongqing. Even though Doudou has worked very hard to cooperate with the doctor, we can still clearly see from the video that her mother made that she has limited coordination of her limbs, and she is struggling to walk smoothly.
Therefore, the 5-year-old Doudou has never had a kindergarten willing to accept her. A week ago, when Doudou's mother posted a video of Doudou's rehabilitation training, she said that because she still couldn't walk well, Doudou was rejected by the kindergarten again.
But netizens who have watched Doudou videos know that this little girl is not stable in walking, but in fact she has a clever little head. She is lively, cute, laughs, and talkative, which is especially likable.
So with the efforts of many caring people, Doudou finally got a one-month trial lesson from a nearby kindergarten, and officially started the life of going to kindergarten in the morning and going to the rehabilitation center in the afternoon.
Seeing Doudou finally became a kindergarten student as she wished, netizens left messages to congratulate. You should know that if it were not for the attention and support of enthusiastic and kind-hearted netizens, Doudou’s kindergarten path might still be It's nowhere in sight.
Actually, many netizens have just experienced the hysterical separation anxiety version of children crying and crying during the opening season of kindergarten, and then they can smile happily when watching Doudou go to kindergarten.Everyone thinks Doudou is really an angel baby. In the comment area, someone gave Doudou the answer that she laughed so happily every time: because she has a mother who loves her and is always optimistic.
You should know that the healing smile that Doudou blooms every day is closely related to her mother's attitude towards her and her life. Dr. Lawrence Cohen, the author of "Playing Forces", once did a "two chicks" experiment. Through the experiment, he found that the frightened chick would judge by observing what the second chick next to him is doing. Is the environment safe? This experimental conclusion explains the impact of parental emotions on children. When the child is going to kindergarten and the parent is fidgeting for various reasons, the child will receive anxiety from the parent, and the child will also be concerned about the unknown. Kindergarten life is full of worries and even resists the kindergarten. Conversely, if parents treat the child’s next kindergarten life with an optimistic and expectant attitude, then the child will also be affected by the parents and hold the same optimistic and expectant attitude as mom and dad.
Many netizens who have watched Doudou videos know that in addition to going to kindergarten, Doudou can show a smile, and she is also very optimistic in her rehabilitation training and daily life.
Perhaps most people have not experienced the tossing process of rehabilitation training, but we can imagine how hard it is for mothers to accompany their children in the daily training process, and Doudou has also suffered from the pain of rehabilitation training. And howling and crying, at this moment, mother must be heartbroken.
However, in every video taken by Doudou's mother, she smiled and chatted with Doudou, encouraging Doudou to cheer, and when Doudou made a little progress, she would be praised very much. Great... When her mother treats Doudou positively and optimistically every day, Doudou responds to her mother with the same positive and optimistic attitude.
If you want to say "Life kisses me bitterly,I replied with singing.” Doudou gave a good example; if you want to say that bringing a baby is a test of patience, then Doudou’s mother gave a good example. For parents, let It may be more important for a child to develop a positive and optimistic personality. After reading Doudou’s mother’s child-bearing model, should we all learn from her?
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