Attention is one of the five basic elements of a child’s IQ. The five basic elements include: observation, attention, memory, imagination, and thinking. These elements are indispensable. has a serious impact on them. Children’s learning and living abilities are the five necessary abilities for children in future life.
Many children have the problem of inattention and . makes many mothers very annoyed . Inattention will bring many problems to children, including future studies and work.
Children’s poor attention will directly affect their learning in the classroom. For example, distraction in the classroom will lead to children’s incomplete absorption of knowledge, and will affect the completion efficiency and accuracy of homework, and finally Affect academic performance. Inadequate concentration at work will lead to 's low work efficiency and work ability, affect the work process , and lose work energy.
A child’s mother talked about the child’s distractions in class at school. For this reason, he was often criticized by the teacher , and he was procrastinated with homework every day, and his interest in learning was obviously insufficient, which led to his grades. The last few in the class made her very distressed and did not know what to do.
What causes the child to lose concentration? When such a problem arises, how should parents cultivate their children's attention or how to correct their children's lack of concentration? Let's take a look together.
Children’s inattention is caused by physiological, psychological and environmental factors.
Physiological factors
Parents should understand, Children’s attention time will gradually increase with age. Studies have shown that children of different ages can sustain attention time differently . Children under 2 years old are mainly unconscious attention, 2-3 years old children’s attention time is less than ten minutes, 4-year-old children are about twelve minutes, 5-6 years old is about ten to fifteen minutes, 7 It takes 15 to 20 minutes for -10 years old, 25 to 30 minutes for 10-12 years old, and more than 30 minutes for children over 12 years old. Therefore, if parents feel that their children are not sufficiently focused, they can test against the above data. It may be because the children's age is still small and the development is not complete enough.
Environmental factors
Secondly, there are too many interference factors in the environment. Parents can pay attention to the children's learning area, whether there are too many toys, comic books , mobile phones and tablets, etc. Disturbing factors make it impossible for children to devote themselves to learning physically and mentally. often has a great impact on children’s attention in the learning environment, and can seriously distract children.
Psychological factors
On the other hand, the child’s psychological factors have an impact on it. The child may be young and the mental development is not sound enough, and the parents have not given the child the correct guidance in time. And education, can’t realize the importance of concentration, and are often willing to play with the ruler and then look at the eraser during the reading process. Such a bad habit will cause the child’s concentration to become worse and worse.
Inattention is very harmful. Every parent hopes that their children can be attentive and focused.
Children will have difficulty in doing things.
First of all,Children develop the habit of inattention, which will make it difficult for them to maintain continuous and high-quality attention on a certain thing. Simply put, children will be involuntarily and unconsciously distracted while studying, which will affect their academic performance. . Not only in terms of learning, when is doing other things, children will be affected by their inability to concentrate on their work efficiency, and many things are difficult to stick to the end.
Develop the habit of laziness
The second major hazard is that it will make children develop the habit of laziness. The inability to concentrate during the learning process will have a great impact on performance. Gradually, children will have a great impact on learning. Desire will also decrease, and I don’t want to work hard. On the other hand, children will gradually lose their fighting spirit after they often enjoy the comfort brought by distracted play, and choose to settle for the status quo, thus forming a lazy habit.
Affects children’s psychology
After the inability to form concentration has become a habit, it will not only affect children’s learning and work, but some children will suffer from lack of self-inhibition. Formation of behavioral problems, such as language and behavior will be aggressive and impulsive, easily interrupt other people's speech, unable to communicate with others normally, anger due to frustration, or unable to control their own behavior in accordance with social requirements, etc.
Cultivating children's attention is a major event that parents should intervene as soon as possible and cultivate scientifically.
First of all, you can motivate your children to do only one thing at a time. In terms of cultivating children’s behavior habits, parents need to make corresponding efforts to input the concept of "do only one thing at a time" to their children to cultivate their behavioral concentration. parents can arrange tasks for their children at the same time. Supervise on the side,Stop in time when the child is distracted, resolutely block the probability of distraction, and make the child develop the habit of concentration.
Secondly, create a learning environment conducive to concentration. Everyone knows the story of Meng's mother's three relocations. Mencius's mother moved three times in order to provide her children with the best learning environment. Mencius’s success shows that a good learning environment affects her children in the process of learning. The degree of importance is that if the learning environment is messy and there are many interference factors, how can children focus on learning, so parents should provide children with a good learning environment while motivating their children to "do one thing at a time".
Reduce the factors that distract children, such as toys, mobile phones, etc., and then arrange an area where there is no interruption so that children can concentrate on learning, which is often easier to get twice the result with half the effort.
Finally, parents can assign learning tasks to their children to be reasonable, and timing is not as good as quantitative. Then when assigning learning tasks to children, pay attention not to leave them with assignments that exceed the scope of their abilities. Whether in terms of difficulty or quantity, excessive difficulty will cause children to be Loss of interest in tasks, too many tasks will cause the child to exceed the time that normal concentration can be maintained, resulting in frequent distractions, which is not conducive to the cultivation of children's attention. Therefore, we say that the assignment of homework to children should be reasonable, and the timing is not as good as quantitative. Only a suitable amount of homework can cultivate children's concentration .
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Children will encounter various problems in the process of growing up. The cultivation of children’s concentration is difficult, important and not to be ignored. Parents need to be patient and take the right methods to guide their children in the right direction .
Today’s topic: Is your baby good at concentration? How did you cultivate it?
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