Good luck / Good pregnancy
I write this article with gratitude, and I would like to thank Director Qian and his medical team for the strength they have given me over the past three years.
1 By chance, I met Director Qian in time
I was fortunate to know Director Qian through an accidental search. At the end of 2018, due to irregular menstruation, I went to a hospital near my home for examination and diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome. I became anxious. At that time, the doctor suggested to take progesterone for half a year to see the situation. I felt that taking the medicine was useless, so I wanted to try Chinese medicine.
I decided to go to a famous Chinese medicine hospital to find an expert. I spent a high registration fee and prescribed a lot of expensive Chinese medicine without asking anything. After drinking for a few days, I can't stand the smell of Chinese medicine, and I feel that I need to stop the loss in time.
So I started to search for doctors recommended by polycystic ovary in Nanjing. When I was scanning a forum, I saw someone strongly recommend Director Qian ( Baidu was so reliable for the first time), immediately. I paid attention to the director's Weibo, and after reading some good pregnancy stories posted by the director, I immediately felt that I found hope. Although there was no pregnancy plan at all because of the high academic pressure with her husband at that time, I decided to look for the director.
2 The first promotion, the first failure
The first time I came to the Second Affiliated Hospital in July 2019, it was also the first time I was amazed by the director's elegant elegance. After telling the director about the polycystic condition, the director of the counseling director told me how to treat it. The director told me: "If you don't have a pregnancy plan for the time being, just live a normal life, don't worry, come to me when you want to get pregnant."
After I told the director of my plan to go abroad, the director immediately asked me if I would like to get pregnant now, and suggested that I take hormones for one month, and start to promote pregnancy next month. It happened to have a baby abroad. Baby. I looked at each other with my husband. After hesitating for a few seconds, I felt a little movement. I said that I would try it.
In this way, without a pregnancy plan at all, the first pregnancy promotion started in August. The result of the lottery HCG was very low, and it was reluctant to double later, and finally biochemical, and the first attempt failed. The director comforted me and said that it was okay, and I would come back to him after returning home.
I failed this time. It doesn't seem to be uncomfortable at all, and I accept it calmly. First, because I was unprepared, and more importantly, the experience of the past two months told me that the director is reliable and nothing terrible.
3 Unexpected natural pregnancy, second failure
In October 2019, because of academic reasons, I had to go to the United States for one year, so I temporarily gave up the pregnancy plan and brought me a plan prepared by Director Qian. Yao and her husband went to the U.S.
Who knew that I was pregnant unexpectedly in May 2020, because I had a biochemical experience, and there was no escort from the director. At that time, it was the worst time of the epidemic in the United States, not at all I dared to go to the hospital, thinking that I would be over. As expected, the HCG doubled was not good, abnormal bleeding, and the fetal heart and the fetal buds stopped. At that time, the obstetrician's video call told me that the b-ultrasound showed that there was velvety material next to the gestational sac, and it was suspected that the hydatidiform mole must be cleared immediately. At that time, the whole person was so stupid and terrified.
Immediately contact Director Qian for online consultation ,The director resolutely told me that it could not be a mole (one is that the HCG is only more than 5,000 and it doesn't increase much, and the other is that if you have a fetal heart rate, you can rule out moles), and told me not to worry, and you can wait for a spontaneous abortion. That sense of fear disappeared instantly, and I felt relaxed.
Since communication with the doctor can only make an appointment for a fixed time (this time is about half a month to one month to make an appointment), I could only contact the nurse to explain to them my Chinese doctor told me It should not be a mole, and I want to wait for a spontaneous abortion at home. They told me very seriously that you must listen to your American doctor’s advice and that they will not be held responsible if there are any problems later. After discussing with her husband, I decided to listen to their arrangements. After all, it was on someone else's territory (because the director complained about him not trusting him after returning to China).
I took a week to make an appointment for various basic examinations and nucleic acid tests before the operation, and I made all the psychological preparations. As a result, I had a sudden pain in my stomach in the afternoon before the surgery, and the spontaneous abortion miraculously Started. Early the next morning, I contacted the nurses and told them that there might be a spontaneous abortion. They told my doctor that they were unable to contact me in the operating room. I still need to go to the hospital to make preparations for the operation. After I contact the doctor, I will decide whether to proceed. The need for surgery.
After a lot of complicated admission procedures and examinations, he changed into hospital gowns and lay on the hospital bed waiting for the Buddhist doctor to pronounce the sentence. After the doctor came, I asked me what I thought. I was shocked and thought "what? Are you a doctor or I am a doctor". After some difficult communication, she agreed to let me go back and cancel the operation, but I need to monitor the decline in HCG every week because she still suspects hydatidiform moles.
Fortunately, the spontaneous abortion was smooth afterwards, and the HCG dropped very fast every week, which dispelled their worries (their unprofessional and extremely troublesome medical appointment system is really bad for their extremely high medical expenses ).
During the whole period, I had many online consultations with the director Qian. The director gave me great confidence and comforted me.Ze Anzhi, look for him after returning home.
4 Second promotion, smooth graduation
After experiencing two spontaneous abortions, I was honestly a little bit stressed about pregnancy. Keep an optimistic and positive attitude and insist on physical exercise, because I know that Director Qian will escort me after I return to China.
After returning to China at the end of October 2020, I was worried that I would be rejected when I went to the hospital. I just returned from the United States. After a month of isolation, I did not immediately go to see the director. I discussed with my husband before returning to the hospital after the Chinese New Year.
I saw the director again in March 2021, and immediately arranged for me to undergo immunotherapy, and I started to promote the discharge after 3 months. Fortunately, I was pregnant again this time. After the draw, I asked the director nervously: Can it be done this time? The director answered me half-jokingly and half-seriously: It can be done for sure, your American doctor can't do it, only a Chinese doctor can do it. Suddenly I felt happy as if I had taken a reassurance pill. After finishing Yichao to show the report to the director, the director said that I don't need to read your report at all. I said: Are you so confident? The director ridiculed "proudly": I don't have this confidence, how can I be confused.
I am amazed by the director's professionalism and confidence, and I am more fortunate to meet the director. The director of the whole process adjusted the medication in time for me to solve the problem of early brown discharge. When I met every week, I said it was okay for the problem I was worried about, and often expressed contempt for some of my mental retardation problems.
is written at the end
For the past three years, I have been thankful that I met Director Qian in time before taking a detour.
Because of the director’s reliability, I began to feel that polycystic ovary is not a problem;
because of the director’s warmth,Every time I go to the clinic, I will be called by name, which makes me feel the infinite power that a doctor with temperature brings to patients;
Because of the professionalism of the director, it brings me a great sense of security and makes me pregnant. Children have always been full of confidence.
"Occasionally cure, often help, always comfort" contains the true essence of medicine, and the director is the ultimate model of the three things of "cure, help, and comfort". The director not only possesses superb medical skills, but more importantly, he has humane care for patients, and exudes the light of human nature all the time.
"It's fine, it's okay, it doesn't matter, don't be nervous, it can be done..." I heard the director's language the most during the medical treatment. It is these simple words that give patients a great sense of security, but also give patients great comfort and confidence, and these are the most effective treatments used in conjunction with drugs.
The words are exhausted, and the respect is endless. I am about to graduate and leave the director to start the next journey. I also wish all the relatives of the director who have been working hard to get pregnant as soon as possible.
