The north wind blows, snow drifts, and the first snow in winter stretches uninterrupted.
9-year-old Lin Lin is watching TV at home with a coat wrapped in her coat. Her mother said, "Lin Lin, you can help your mother with some housework when you grow up. Mom now has to wash clothes. Go and wash the dishes in the kitchen. ."
"I know, but I'm watching TV, I don't want to wash it so soon." Lin Lin replied.
"You have been watching TV for a long time. It's better to pause and wait until you finish washing the dishes." Mom urged.
"Okay." After Lin Lin finished speaking, he came to the kitchen reluctantly.
He turned on the faucet, and immediately retracted his hand as soon as he touched the water, and shouted, "It's freezing to death!" He looked at the pile of greasy bowls and felt very annoyed in his heart, and he kept muttering: "I'm so annoying, when can I finish the washing..."
After a while, Lin Lin ran out and said, "These bowls are too dirty. I can't wash them."
"It's okay. It can be cleaned." Mom said.
"No, I can't wash it. It's too cold now, and my hands are getting frostbite." Lin Lin came up with another reason to avoid doing housework.
"You will not be exposed to cold water if you wear plastic gloves." Mom took the plastic gloves.
"Okay, okay, after the washing, I'm going to watch TV." Lin Lin casually washed twice, and then ran back to watch TV. There was still residual foam on the bowl he washed.
"Really, it makes you annoying to do some housework. In fact, you calm down and do it. These things are very simple." Mom took Lin Lin to the kitchen and taught him, "You look good, how does mom wash the dishes? ：First use tap water to wash away the residue and oil stains on it, then sprinkle a little detergent, wash it twice with a rag, and finally rinse it with clean water twice, and you are done!"
Lin Lin wondered Ask mom: "Mom,Wouldn’t it be annoying for you to do so many tasks every day? "
Mom said with a smile: "No, mom just thinks about it, so that the whole family can have a clean and tidy living environment, so that the father can dress stylishly and handsomely, and the baby can eat delicious meals. Not when doing housework. It will be annoying.
Lin Lin hugged her mother and said, "Well, then I think I can reduce the burden for my mother in the future, and I won't be annoyed! "
In the above story, Lin Lin felt irritable while washing the dishes. He said dirty for a while and cold at the other. The child felt very annoyed to do anything, so it would not do anything well.
In this situation, how can parents guide their children to eliminate irritability? Here are a few suggestions worthy of reference:
1. Let the children calm down and do some things that are annoying, no Worry also to do
There are some things that children must do every day, and they must also do it if they are not annoying. Therefore, parents should guide their children to calm their minds and do everything calmly.
2. The meaning of guiding children to think more about doing things
If there is no sense of meaning in the mind, it will be difficult for children to get fun from the current boring tasks, and it is difficult to generate motivation to do things. Therefore, parents can guide children to divert attention and think more. The meaning of the task and the joy of completing the task, to dispel irritability.
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