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One of the most obvious manifestations of the improvement of living standards is that more and more parents are willing to "work hard" on their children's education . Not only traditional education , parents also uphold the "more is better" point of view in the cultivation of children's interest .
With the support of parents' thoughts, more and more interest classes have sprung up all over the country. While provides parents with more choices, it also makes countless parents fall into the vicious circle of "the more expensive the better".
In fact, interest classes should not be reported indiscriminately. Otherwise, will not only be wasted money, but will even miss the child's great developmental opportunity..
There are three kinds of interest classes. They are "currency shredders", which are useless and waste money, but parents are flocking them. It is more to seek personal gain for oneself in the name of education.
In particular, these three interest classes are more "gold and jade, but slaughtered". Parents should learn to avoid pitfalls.
[The first type]: Promote obviously exaggerated hobby classes
This hobby class actually captures the parents' mentality of "speeding up", such as "quantum speed reading" and "training a genius painter in ten days". In fact, it was a little trick they used to get away with it.
Many parents feel very puzzled the first time after seeing such publicity, and can't help being fooled by their inner "quick" mentality.But parents might as well think about it, if you can really copy geniuses in batches, isn't it true that geniuses have been everywhere from ancient times to the present?
is of course nonsense.
Education can never be achieved overnight, and the examples of pulling the seedlings to encourage growth and hurting Zhongyong are lessons from the past.. For parents, maintaining a heart that is not arrogant or impetuous is the real secret to educating children.
[Second Type]: Interest classes with unknown qualifications
For regular schools , their teachers are generally relatively strong, but in comparison, such private interest classes will appear informal. many. Even the fact that they played the banner of famous teacher teaching itself is debatable.
After all, it is constantly exposed on the Internet that some teachers in interest classes do not have the qualification certificate at all. Can such teachers and parents put their children in their hands with confidence?
This requires parents to do their homework in advance when choosing interest classes for their children, and they must stay away from interest classes with unknown teachers.
[Third Type]: Interest classes for large classes
From the point of view of interest classes, as a kind of profit-making organization, profit is their main purpose. This determines that they will most likely choose large class teaching in terms of teaching mode.
There are thirty or forty people in a class, and even forty or fifty people are in class at the same time. Originally, the point-to-point guidance of several people became the teacher's discussion on the podium.What is the difference between an interest class like
and studying at school?
Just imagine, if your children study in a large class environment at school, their academic performance is not good, Does that mean they can learn real things in interest classes? The
answer is of course not.
What parents have to do is to flexibly grasp the class structure of the interest class and choose a suitable class type for their children.
As a parent, if you want to choose a good interest class so as not to miss your child's development, you'd better do three things.
● Respect your child's own choice
As the saying goes: Interest is the best teacher.
The key basis for parents to choose interest classes for their children is to fit the children's own interests. According to the child's preferences and preferences, parents can choose the most suitable interest class for their child.
instead of " sailing against the current ", let the child learn something they don't like. This is rather the opposite.
● Learn about the interest classes on the market in advance.
Although the current family conditions are relatively better, it is not easy to make money after all, and money should be used where it should be used. This actually means that parents should consciously demining their children and conduct some market research to avoid being deceived.
, especially geographic location, teachers and other content that are highly related to children's learning, parents must be aware of it.
● Recognize your child's strengths and weaknesses
The interest class is an interest organization in the final analysis. When choosing a child, you should select and screen out your child's own strengths and weaknesses.
For those difficult learning content, parents must learn to delete and change consciously, give full play to the child's own strengths and avoid weaknesses in order to allow children to get more progress with half the effort.
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