My goodness, are you still pissing and pissing the baby?

Many parents are very proud of their children's "peeing" and think that such babies are "knowledgeable". However, can babies really be trained to control their bowel and bowel movements and establish urination patterns? the answer is negative. A few months old babies are not conscious of urinary excretion and cannot control it autonomously. When the bladder or rectum is full, it will produce a chain reaction and excrete it spontaneously.

"Take the shit and pee" is a common parenting method in the traditional concept. At that time, this method can reduce the labor of mothers cleaning diapers, and mothers mistakenly believe that "time defecation" Urinating helps to develop good habits in the future." Today's scientific concept of parenting shows that it is not advisable to "pure excrement and pee", which violates the law of baby's growth and development, deprives the baby of his autonomous control ability, and harms his health.

When the weather is hot, mothers or family members may think that the baby is wearing a diaper or diaper "too uncomfortable", and will put the baby in the crotch pants and "poop the poop". This is Adults deliberately control the baby's behavior, which is a manifestation of disrespect for the baby. Mothers don’t have to worry about the baby’s diaper being unable to quit in the future, nor do they have to worry about the heat causing skin damage. When the baby grows up to about 2 years old, he will gradually experience the discomfort of urinating in a diaper. At that time, it will be easy for the mother to guide the baby to learn to use the toilet.

The baby’s fecal excretion is an unconditional reflex, and it cannot be controlled autonomously when the nervous system is not fully developed. It can neither actively squeeze the bowel movement through the movement of the abdominal muscles, nor can it Restrain so that the stool will not be excreted. The so-called "knowledge" is nothing more than the conditioned reflex that parents help the baby establish through actions, postures, sounds, etc., and even the result of the parents' observation and judgment that the baby is about to excrete and immediately take the action of peeing.None of this means that the baby has learned to control his bowels.

Washing a few diapers less or saving a limited amount of money for diapers comes at the cost of your baby’s health. In addition to causing psychological harm to the baby, "putting shit and urine" may also cause physical harm. Because the mother cannot know in advance when the baby is going to urinate and defecate, it is inevitable that she will frequently "put" it. This is an abnormal stimulation of the baby's hip joint and anal sphincter , which is harmful and unhelpful. Frequent "poop and urine" is also easy to cause the baby's anal prolapse or anal fissure due to the frequent increase of abdominal pressure pressure on the anus.

Always urinate, the baby builds a conditioned reflex. Once the baby is urinated again, even if the baby's bladder is not full, it will urinate, which will cause frequent urination. Usually, when the baby is about one and a half years old, he begins to have the consciousness of defecation and urination on his own. At that time, mom and dad can train according to the situation to help the baby establish defecation rules more easily. Therefore, mom and dad should pay special attention not to blindly follow or train too early. The baby defecates and urinates.

Will you insist on letting your baby urinate and defecate naturally? Do you know what effect the feces and urine will have on the baby's physical development? How did you persuade your family to give up taking shit and pee?