Su Qin said:
"No one can come the road of life for the second time. Walk slowly, look carefully, don't be too anxious, in fact, you are not that rush."
In this impetuous era, there are always some people who live in a hurry, and they have no patience in their work, life, or even feelings.
However, things in the world cannot be solved if they are urgent, and life cannot be solved if they are urgent. On the contrary, too often haste will not be achieved.
Impatient will only result in dementia and making mistakes in a hurry, thus managing your life in a mess.
In fact, life often needs to slow down. As an adult, you should also have the wisdom to slow down.
When you know how to "slow" in the following three things, you will find that your life will encounter more beauty.
"Slow"
Ancient saying goes:
"A word hurts the harmony of heaven and earth, and a thing destroys the blessing of life."
Sickness comes from the mouth , and disaster comes from the mouth.
is easy to speak, but we are not willing to bear the price of saying the wrong thing.
always speaks but doesn’t have the brain to say anything, and in the end it is inevitable that you will say too much and make more mistakes, which will bring you some unnecessary trouble.
TV series " Knows ", the eldest lady of the Sheng family, Wang Ruofu, has a good family background, and her children are promising, and her mind is not bad.
But such a person who has caught such a good card has repeatedly fallen at the disadvantage of Lin Xiaoniang. If you look at the reasons carefully, it is often because you can't control your mouth.
There is a plot in the drama:
Wang Ruofu lost the face of the Sheng family because Lin Xiaoniang lost face in front of outsiders, and he grabbed Lin Xiaoniang's handle.
However, this situation of victory was a complete defeat because of Wang Ruofu's words "Full from the Concubine". Not only did he not punish Lin Xiaoniang, but he also offended Sheng Hong.
Lawyer Huilu said:
"When you want to speak, what you say must be more valuable than your silence."
Life is like this. If you want to get any good results, it is not so casual. For those who want to achieve success, strictness is a very important requirement.
Take speech as an example. What we say should be like stars in the night, not like firecrackers on New Year’s Eve.
In fact, speaking slower means leaving room for yourself to think. Only in this way can you be more quality and avoid the risk of saying the wrong words.
Feeling "slow"
" Chunjiao and Zhiming " There is a line I like very much:
"We are not in a hurry, and some things don't have to be done overnight."
What is in the world, if you say that the most things that cannot be rushed is feelings.
This is because people are good at disguising, without the sedimentation of time and daily interactions, we cannot fully understand a person.
The relationship that starts at the speed of light often ends at the speed of light.
I once saw a story like this:
A girl met a man during a dinner party.
Because the two of them have a good impression of each other, they added contact information. And the day after they met, with the man's confession, the two officially began dating and planned to get married in less than a month.
Because of her so urgent, the people around her naturally felt that it was unreliable. They advised the girl to say that marriage is not a joke, but a lifelong thing, and let her date for a longer time before deciding on marriage.
But the girl always feels that during the month of being together, the two of them get along very well. She really meets someone who is destined to be. The people around her are worried about it, so she didn't listen to anyone's opinions and got married in a hurry.
However, after getting married, everything is not as beautiful as I imagined.
When getting along, there are serious differences in personality, lifestyle, and even values. In the end, less than a year after getting married, the relationship between the two came to an end.
No matter at any time, don’t be too anxious about your lifelong affairs. You must understand that only when you love slowly can you recognize it and love it longer.
"slow" doing things
In life, there are always some impatient people who are always very impatient when encountering things, and they wish they could finish everything in one day.
However, there are too many things that cannot be achieved overnight. Over-tempered behavior and quick success and instant benefits often only backfire.
In the end, the more we are anxious about success, the more likely we are to be backfired by the results.
In a company, there are two interns who join together.
In order to become a regular as soon as possible, both of them worked very hard, but the way they worked hard was very different.
One of the interns always responds quickly. Whatever the leader assigned is basically submitted in advance than the other intern.
But in the end, the intern who always handed in the late task became a regular in advance.
Why? Is it because the intern who handed in the late task related? In fact, it is not.
, interns who complete tasks quickly do their work, but they do it roughly, and basically have some problems that need to be reworked.
And that "slow" intern thinks everything carefully and basically doesn't have to worry about the leader.
is obvious, and every leader will like the latter.
Doing things quickly is not a reflection of a person's ability. After all, if you can't do things well, then no matter how fast you are, it doesn't make any sense.
Instead of being irritable, it is better to know how to calm down and take your time when things come.
When you do things down-to-earth and are attentive enough, you must believe that everything can be too late and you will get more recognition and opportunities.
Tagore said:
"The best things always happen inadvertently, so there is no need to panic."
There are too many things in this life, and it is not something that can be effective in a hurry, it all takes time.
Only when you know how to "slow" can you solve problems faster, complete things, and encounter a better future.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
